YOU'RE ALL BASTARDS!

Now that I've got your attention...

Yo!

First let me say how fucking happy I am that this place exists! A friend of mine mentioned 'The Game' by neil Strauss completely in passing about a month ago, he didn't go in-deapth at all but I was intrigued. I had always considered him a really confident natural and the idea that he had read a book of this sort completely amazed me.

I've just turned 22, live near London, England. And it really hurts to say this, but I'm SHIT with women! I'm nervous, tongue tied and general just make myself look a complete dick. But thanks to discovering The Game at least I recognise that it's MY fault and not theres! Anyway, so I've read The Game and The Natural Art of Seduction. And working my way slowly through a book on NLP. In short, basically attempting to immerse myself into this.

I have huge AA (unless i'm drunk, bad habit). And go through phases of being completly unconfident in myself, but it's changing and it feels fucking good to be making steps to better myself.

Anyway, i'm here to learn and looking forward to it!

cheers
antepartum



=A question=
I would put the following into 'day 2s' but i don't have sufficient forum priveledges yet, so...



Im hugely more hyped than usual, because I made my first phone call to HB7 who gave me her number on Tuesday. I walked around pacing the house and outside for about 3 fucking hours trying to drum up the courage to ring her, going through all these stupid situations in my head and almost flaked on soo many occasions. (It would help to point out I've NEVER had a girlfriend (not counting 12 year old plaground romances) and only ever had a one night stand. No i'm not mr pimp, and this is all new to me!

Eventually I did it by pretty much assessing the situation... I'd made out with her before a few months back, and didnt call her (she went on holiday the next day and I used that as my excuse in my head to not phone her, in short i was shit scared). I approached her last tuesday at a club whilst she was on her phone, opened with a stupid joke, had a little talk. Feined boredom a couple of times by looking around the room to get her to work a little harder on the convo. She gave me her number, took my phone and wrote it in. We then parted to different areas of the club.

Half an hour later or so, im going at it on the dance floor, and comes up to me and is pretty playful. Eventually I make the first move, and we make out. A few times that night.

That was tuesday. I ring her today friday (after prancing around for 3 hours). I Eventually build myself up by explaining a few things to myself...


Mainly, it was her that gave me her number. She wants me to ring her to validate our encounter. I'm the mother fucking alpha male! She has to work to get me! And most importantly, she should be some what happy to speak to me, and not breathing fire down the phone (this took 3 hours to convince myself)


This aside, i'm shit on the phone, just as in real life, just nervous, but I fucking did it. I did a few AFC things, sounded a little needs, like saying ''do you wannna meet up next week?//whens you free?" as opposed to a more relaxed and stronger ''Let's meet up! i'm good for tuesday, little busy until then... i'm out saving whales" etc.

She mentioned her Ex boyfriend in our phone convo, when i asked if she had a good time on tuesday. He pissed her off or soemthing. Which leads me to think theres a possibilty that she just got with me to get at him who knows...

Conclusion... it's one girl... dont get fucking oneitis. If i fucked up the phone call, who cares, Ive learnt something! What i'd like some advice on, is when to call her again, or maybe a message, or not. She says she away till monday. So i've got some time to just relax and not get to worked up.

Conclusion2 ... so happy that i made that leap and phoned her. Yes! Oh and sorry for this long post.

welcome bro