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| Author: | dannyTO [ Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Comfort zone mess up can I still pull it off ? |
I’m really sorry for long story but well want you all to see whole story, thanks to the patient ones who’ll read it and let me know if I can still pull this one off or just drop and don’t p/u calls from her if she does call. So meet this girl at a patio all good she kind of knows a friend that's how we met. We chat all is fun get her number we go on short date have a blast I play it cool, we talk some more start seeing each other during few weeks. All feels good just a nice mix of interest without over doing it. She got out of being with a guy for 2 years about 2.5 months ago. Then I noticed couple of times asked her out for movies, dinner or whatever she was busy but wanted to meet for coffee we did meet. I'm busy with work so couldn't see her all week she calls at least once a day and texts a lot. We hook up this Friday and casually I mention if she's always busy on evenings since we haven't gone on date for bit she starts the BS with how she's scared to get close to anyone at this time etc I play it cool even tho it got awkward. Next day Saturday we go shopping (for me btw lol) we have fun she's pretty comfortable with casual touching etc. So I thought I saved it but now one of her best friends is a guy (probably some poor guy stuck in FZ) that she meets pretty often she told me about him before few times before. We meet Sunday she asks to meet up early I say I can do it until evening she says ok don't pick up her call I’m busy call her back her phone is off. Then 30 min later she calls and we meet up all seems good grab her hand she goes along I want to bounce we start driving she goes “I hope we not going be too long got to meet up with” that "guy friend" in an hour. I get pissed not show it just say "oh no point going then and turn around the car" stay quiet, she does puppy face and says where did you wanted to go, I say “dinner” she goes “oh now I feel really bad ...” I stay quiet we park by her car and talk some more. And I think this is where I made another mistake I say, as a tease (but inside very frustrated) “maybe you” and "guy friend" should hook up since you see each other so much. She gets pissy giving me lecture how he's been there for her in tough times etc but there is no feelings and never will be anything. I smile say it was just a tease we both laugh and I split. She texts at night saying good night (I was out I text her back GN) Monday-thought about all this deleted the number so I don't get tempted to call, she does tho, we chat everything seems to be fairly cool. In the evening she texts that's she's going to sleep I ask if she wants me to call she says k, call her in 5-10 she doesn’t' p/u. I don't think she did fall asleep that fast lol I think she didn't feel like talking or whatever. Bottom line I know more or less where I went wrong but damn invested few weeks on her (and I got busy work life) and I really like this one. Is it possible to save it still? I know I wont call if she doesn't it's just how I am lol but any advice of how to save this one and still come on the top would be great. |
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| Author: | The Doctor [ Tue Oct 09, 2007 4:34 am ] |
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Carefull... you don't wanna get the dreaded One-itis, especially with a girl your not sleeping with. It could probably be saved but you'll need to be carefull. If you've been working it for a couple weeks and haven't done anything (have you k-closed yet?), then your starting to condition her that when you two hang out nothing physical happens. And remember she doesn't have to open up to have sex with you... She just has to open her legs. 
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| Author: | saqchek [ Tue Oct 09, 2007 1:23 pm ] |
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Quit asking chicks to Dinner/Movie. Women want a guy that's original. Do you fucking think taking a chick out to dinner/movie is god damn original? Guess what? You are like every fucking schmoe she goes out with and she'd just assume to be with the other "guy friend" who's doing the same thing. Give her some options to think about. Mainly that you are fun, spontaneous and are different from all the other men she meets. If you can't pull this off, no way you'll get ANY chick. |
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