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Author:  Captain Bubble Beard [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 5:42 am ]
Post subject:  Online Convo
So this girl I work with (only see her every other weekend) requested to be my friend after I commented on a friends pic of her. I waited a couple days to accept it and what not. After accepting it I sent her a message.

Me: Man I was gonna request to be your friend too but since you beat me to it...I guess I was too irresistible and you couldn't wait. Anxious much?

Her: hahah it had to be done lol i always see you at work and you never even say hi whats that all about lol.

I'm usually busy at work, hence not having a chance to say "hey" or anything.

Just wondering about some ways to respond to her message and also ways to approach her at work. Been out of the game for around 2 years and I'm just starting to get back in so some pointers would be awesome.
Author:  .EnVy. [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 11:28 am ]
Post subject: 
Alright, your last response, wasn't
the best one in my opinion--you could
have used a DHV and a neg.

You should have said:

"Yeah, I know; my friends seem to stop
by often and they always "need help" so
I have tot talk to the for a while. Everything
else seems to keep me pretty busy.

But you know, I'm not the only one that's
supposed to make the effort at a converastion,
you could have said something yourself, ya know?

lol :) "

Make sure you have the "lol :)" so that you
don't think that you're a jerk hahaha.
Author:  Farrish [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 11:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Online Convo
Quote:
Me: Man I was gonna request to be your friend too but since you beat me to it...I guess I was too irresistible and you couldn't wait. Anxious much?
I don't know if I would have told her you were going to request her back. Her going after you is an IOI; you saying you were going to do the same cancels that out in my opinion.
Author:  Captain Bubble Beard [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 5:50 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Alright, your last response, wasn't
the best one in my opinion--you could
have used a DHV and a neg.

You should have said:

"Yeah, I know; my friends seem to stop
by often and they always "need help" so
I have tot talk to the for a while. Everything
else seems to keep me pretty busy.

But you know, I'm not the only one that's
supposed to make the effort at a converastion,
you could have said something yourself, ya know?

lol :) "

Make sure you have the "lol :)" so that you
don't think that you're a jerk hahaha.
Oh that part after her response wasn't my response. Was just explaining a bit why I can't usually talk to her to you guys. I haven't sent anything back yet.
I was thinking the same thing in terms of response. Like "I'm always talking to my friends or helping the guys in the shop so I'm really busy during the day." I like that last part you suggested though.
Quote:
I don't know if I would have told her you were going to request her back. Her going after you is an IOI; you saying you were going to do the same cancels that out in my opinion.
Yea I see what you're saying there. Well thats why I asked for opinions and help. Anymore suggestions would be awesome.
Author:  .EnVy. [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 8:03 pm ]
Post subject: 
You might want to reply so
that she doesn't think that
you're not interested. I
recommend using the message
that I would have used; trust me,
it works like a charm.
Author:  Captain Bubble Beard [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 10:11 pm ]
Post subject: 
I basically used what you said and got a response.

Her: haha i try but you always walk right by with your head down lol

I'm thinking I should respond with something like "Well you will have to try harder to get my attention." Or is that too stuck up?
Author:  saqchek [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 10:31 pm ]
Post subject: 
You're not going to like this, but it has to be said.


Don't get your honey where you get your money.



It leads to bad things.
Author:  Trivial [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 10:35 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
You're not going to like this, but it has to be said.


Don't get your honey where you get your money.



It leads to bad things.
ahahhahahhaa never heard that saying but I like it :lol:
Author:  Captain Bubble Beard [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 10:59 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
You're not going to like this, but it has to be said.


Don't get your honey where you get your money.



It leads to bad things.
I was waiting to hear this one :P

Haha I only work on the weekends and shes only there every other weekend. So I don't see her much. We work in different places (but the buildings are connected) so if something bad would happen it wouldn't matter anyway.
Author:  shurgs [ Fri Sep 28, 2007 11:47 pm ]
Post subject: 
haha...man when i opened this post... and i started reading I was taken aback... i made that line, you tweeked it a alil, but i was shocked to see it... respect bro.


i would have said yea you are right, but i dont have much time at work...maybe ill fit you for a minute the niext time i see u, but only a minute bc im busy

False time constraint..and it shows her interest, but also that she has to increase her value to be on the same importance level of your work...
Author:  shurgs [ Sat Sep 29, 2007 12:00 am ]
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also tell her the job makes you money.... what are you going to do for me... or change a lil so its not so nasty...but say somehting to make her prove her value you to her
Author:  Captain Bubble Beard [ Sat Sep 29, 2007 6:18 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
haha...man when i opened this post... and i started reading I was taken aback... i made that line, you tweeked it a alil, but i was shocked to see it... respect bro.
Yep I saw it on a post a few days ago and forgot who did it. Otherwise I would have given credit where credit is due. Very minor tweak.
Author:  saqchek [ Sat Sep 29, 2007 12:52 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
also tell her the job makes you money.... what are you going to do for me... or change a lil so its not so nasty...but say somehting to make her prove her value you to her

That's a bit too strong to use.
Author:  shurgs [ Sat Sep 29, 2007 12:58 pm ]
Post subject: 
yep..i thought that part was too... chekc what i wrote right after that...



that part needs work, what kind of suggestions do you ahve bc if he says that she will shoot him down
Author:  Captain Bubble Beard [ Sun Sep 30, 2007 2:55 am ]
Post subject: 
Me: Yea but I'm always heading to do something. Maybe I'll squeeze you in for a minute, but only a minute because I'm busy.

You could always pop your head in if I'm in the office. Everyone knows how lazy you cashiers are anyway. =P

Her: screw you!!! haha im busy doing my homework or talking on the phone

Haha her response made me crack up.
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