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I originally posted this on a different thread but in hindsight, I think that this is a different topic altogether. I recently shared a chat with 'storyteller' (not his real handle. Here's his plight:
1. He likes a girl.
2. He TELLS his friends he likes this girl.
3. He TELLS the girl, “You know how I feel about you right?”
4. The girl obviously gets skittish. The boy obviously feels disappointed.
5. He reads a few lines out of random pick up material.
6. Now he wants to tell girl a bunch of PU bs then finish with, "So let's go grab a smoothie. You're treating."
To clarify Kasabi just outlined the basis for most of the inexperienced teen interaction. This is pretty much the outline by which I have gone on dates in the past/throughout high school.
For me, It's pretty obvious when a girl is interested in me. A big factor is by body language and tonality. Just building small report and getting a number close you can build into many more options.
On my current gf, when we first went out together in public (which is a date regardless if it's official). I pretty much set up a scenario in her head which was appealing to her.
Me: So I kinda am totally feeling a smoothie right now, you in?
Her: haha im at work
Me: Sounds like someone needs a vacation
Her: Haha def
Me: Regardless I have to satisfy my inner nature desire for smoothies. I might be able to wait till tomorrow though.
Her: Haha well seee
*tomorrow afternoon*
Me: I just got out of the gym, we still on?
Her: Suree...
Me: Aight meet u there
From there its just a sure win, shes already communicated attraction and comfort by willing to go in public with you. Remember, what girls text's/say and what they feel/mean are really two separate entities.
They key here is not to dwell too much on the talking/build up. It's nice to build a little sexual tension, but if it's all talk and no action then she will get bored and move onto the next guy who can try and satisfy her insatiable female desires. Actions speak louder than words, and don't be discouraged if shes hesitant or gives LMS. Its common knowledge in the community that it's better to try than go around thinking "what if?"
-Silentman