Is it just me or does anybody have friends that get in the way off your sarging.
Im really pissed with 1 or 2 of them. Obviously they're not wingmen. Just some regular close friends (who have no idea about PUA). But we could be out somewhere (not sarging), spot a girl and we approach and they just make all the wrong moves.
Today I was out in town with a mate, not sarging or anything. WHen we spotted a real HB10. Its not often we see them round here. So up we go up and I start the convo, shes laughing, Im building kino and my mate just jumps in and I dont think he could sabotaged us any worse if he tried. Out of nowhere his first sentence was:
"I cant believe your actually talking to us- most girls dont even look twice at me"
I was absolutely speechless (even now when I think about it, like what are you supposed to say to that?) :O :O The convo stopped dead in its tracks and we all went a bit silent.
I kinda salvaged the conversation by joking about him being a big weirdo, and the the only reason I even talk to him is because he follows me around everywhere and hes got big puppy dog eyes and I cant say no to him.
I started trying to build kino again. This time my mate sees what Im doing and he decides he wants a go but needless to say he waaay over does it and she starts getting freaked out.
I just closed there on the spot and walked away with my head in my hands. And my mate giving me a lecture on how those hot girls are all the same, only after rich guys or extremely good looking guys.
I wouldnt mind but he's a lifelong mate, we have being mates since we were in nappies, I cant really just blow him off. What makes it worse is he's socially awkward, so i dont want to tell him about pua and then maybe run the risk of having to "train" him. It was hard enough for me to get the hang off it. Theres just so much to perfect (and by 'perfect' I dont mean sitting on your laptop reading about it) I dont know how any guy can even claim to teach you pua in a 3 day group seminar with 19 other people. If you want to get good. Its going to take you about a year or 2. And by good I mean, I pick out a girl you go get her, not just play the numbers game off opening 50 girls a night knowing your bound to get 1. Anyone can do that.
Im just so pissed off.
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