Hi,
Part of the problem I have with this girl I'm trying to progress with is that I'm always available when she wants to hang out.
We both work during the day but our evenings are free.
I work in construction so I'm usually less inclined to do anything crazy of an evening so if I'm not seeing her, I'll just chill out in front of the telly or something.
I don't have anything to occupy my evenings. So if she asks me out for an evening, I can't say, "Oh I'm doing such and such tonight, can we do it another time" etc.
She has a personal trainer 4 days a week and sometimes she'll have her either one of her parents to stay with her for the weekend so often comes out with, "I can't do that night because".
She knows I have no other options than her so I feel she is dangling herself in-front of me.
I don't really want to lie, but is there any tricks to make it appear like I'm busy, and more importantly, she's not the only option I have?
I'm not the clingy type at all, there's been many occasion where I've backed off and she's had to approach me to get things moving again. This has worked everytime. But I do want to bone her so I have been available each time she has pursued me like a little lost puppy.
I'm thinking of saying the next time she asks me out, which she will have to do as I'm not going to ask her, is to say I can't because an old friend is back in town for a few days...
Any help would be appreciated.
