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Author:  Keitaro [ Wed Oct 20, 2010 12:20 am ]
Post subject:  Double trouble with competition and sudden change in vibe

Hey guys, I have a situation here that I am a little stuck and would like some help.
Ok to introduce this, I am somewhat new to the game. I mean i read a lot but recently is when i started to go out and consciously apply these things at the same time. So yea, im new.

I am currently interested in two girls. I do not want them at the same time im just don't want to fall into that One-itis thing. Anyway...

One girl is in one of my classes and she is pretty good looking. She ain't that hot but ill tag a HB8 on there. I started talking to her not long after start of semester and we started to talk. However that was at the same time my friend started to talk to her. We once talked about it outside of class when he jokingly said i was hitting on her (to prod me and see if i actually was) and i said no. He also said no when i responded "O yeah, what about you?". After that he still hits on her...Hard. He talks to her all through class and because of odd seating arrangements the move to the seats behind me. I dont chase after her, i just ignore her untill something comes up and we cross paths to have a conversation. One time last week she contacted me through FB for the first time and we studied together online for a test (i said i was getting too much convo requests on FB so i can ask for her aim). After that its back to the same.

I think i should just ignore my friend but i think i need to get her alone. I want to ask her out to coffee so i can plant myself in the situation and get some good ground here with great rapport.


On the other hand, there was this other girl that i met out-of-the-blue-random-like when i was hanging out in an empty room. Turns out it was the room to her next class. Im not going to get into it (too long of a post ;D) but i opened her and got her name (I DO NOT KNOW WHY I DIDNT #close or asked her out to someplace....IDK brain block). Despite that i remember i coincidentally passed her again at some other place and we had a very short but energetic conversation. Here is where i think it went downhill.

The next week after that, i was in the same room and i talked to her but it was a pretty short conversation. I guess it was b/c there were other people in the room that time and a shield went up idk. When i left the room before here class started, i accidentally left one of the electronic things unplugged and someone must have complained about it in the class and i know that she must have witnessed it because someone told us later that someone from my major left it unplugged (i only told that girl what my major was). Also the next week, i accidentally left my wallet in that room when i left (i didnt see her before i left. I thought she might be late but i think she was absent). It was returned to me because apparently the professor made some big deal to find me ( i guess thats bittersweet there).

So the next week (finally @__@) i was in that room again and she was there, when i tried to talk to her, she was kind of short with me. I think they had to do some exercise of quiz or w/e but i just found it kind of weird and when we left ( i stayed in the back of the class till they had break) she was infront of me when we were leaving but she never looked back and walked off.

I dont know if im thinking about this too much but i just though it was weird. It could be that she was paying attention to the class and came off short. I just hope that she doesnt think im a bumbling idiot because of the 2 faux pas i had. Even so i just want to talk to her so i can get some good rapport in and kind of erase that bumpy start.

I know that this was pretty long but i kinda need some opinions. Am I on the right path and just thinking to bloody much or is it something else. Thank for bearing with me. =D

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