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| Author: | JoeSki [ Wed Sep 19, 2007 3:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Where does a guy go to find introverted girls? |
The title pretty much throws it all out there. I'm an introverted guy. I just got into the PUA thing and have read as many books and online articles about the subject I can find. I've been pretty introverted for as long as I can remember, and while I work in sales and have read several books to improve my conversing abilities, I'm still a pretty introverted guy. And I really don't see it as a flaw. It's who I am. I have an overactive imagination, love the company of a stack of books, and prefer one or two really close friends to a sprawling network of people. Though I do happen to have a sprawling network of people to turn to. My thing is this: In this past year I've just started dating around and from my experience I've gotten along far better with the girls who checked out as being introverts like myself, than I have with girls who were extroverts... even if they had the same interests. The introverted girls and I were always on the same mental wavelength as it were, and their sense of humor was a lot more imaginative. They didn't care to drink either, which I really liked since I really dislike drinking myself. Is there any proven place where a guy can find more introverted girls? I'm trying my hand at cafes and bookstores...haven't had much success with bookstores. I've had one pleasant conversation that petered out near the end in a cafe, and one encounter that was going REALLY well until her fat friend plopped down beside her and cock blocked me...b**** knew she was cock blocking me too.... But hey, yeah, there it is. Any places proven for having introverted girls? |
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| Author: | Rye Lee [ Wed Sep 19, 2007 3:57 am ] |
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Just think of your typical quiet nerd zones, like libraries and internet cafes. Being introverted isn't exactly a bad thing as a person, but if you want to be a PUA its gonna really hurt your game. If you're just interested in meeting girls that are like you, then this isn't something you want to get into, because they are two different things. |
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| Author: | Methuselah [ Wed Sep 19, 2007 5:04 am ] |
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Bookstore / Library is your best shot here. |
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| Author: | Holden [ Wed Sep 19, 2007 7:58 am ] |
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I think you've got to put it into perspective. Don't think of places where ONLY introverted girls go. Think of places where EVERYONE goes. - Grocery Stores - Walmart - Bus stops - Public Parks - etc. You can pin point the introverts by their body language and go from there. |
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| Author: | JoeSki [ Fri Sep 21, 2007 3:41 am ] |
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Quote: Just think of your typical quiet nerd zones, like libraries and internet cafes. Being introverted isn't exactly a bad thing as a person, but if you want to be a PUA its gonna really hurt your game. If you're just interested in meeting girls that are like you, then this isn't something you want to get into, because they are two different things.
Yeah, it has been hurting my game. There's not much social proof to be found in being a loner, not matter how much confidence you have. I am interested in meeting girls like me, but something I've learned is that these PUA skills are something you need to pick up ANY girl. They all react the same to a thousand different subtle rules no one ever told me about until now. I can throw myself out of my comfort zone buck nekkid until I'm a pro and then just lean back and only pick up on girls I suspect are like me. What do you consider introverted body language? I thought I knew what an introvert looked like until I started talking to a lot of girls who's actions reminded me of myself and learned that many are quite different. Some might look introverted when really they just want to be left alone for the time being and didn't care to dress themselves up. |
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