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| Author: | Gemo21x [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 3:15 pm ] |
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So there is this beautiful girl in my class. I sit across the room from her. I am terrified to talk to her. I have no idea how to do it or what to say. Any help would be awesome. |
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| Author: | Rye [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 3:31 pm ] |
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i am just learning as well, but if i were you i would try this-- first off, do not introduce yourself until she asks what your name is, i always use to introduce myself and i recently realized i was doing it all wrong. you want HER to WANT to know your name, as oppose to being EASY and GIVING it to her. see my point? anyway, try this next time ur in class, i have the same kind of issues as you, i am actually working ona number close in class later today. OK so sit next to her, be confident, make eye contact as if her beauty has not affected you WHATSOEVER. she is a normal person, just treat her like one. when u sit next to her, feel around ur pant pockets or whatev and ask her for a pencil (bring one to class though). if she has one, immediately find one in ur pocket and say "oh nevermind i don't need it i have one." reject her pencil offer. you have to time this though and make it look like its not staged, which WILL be relativly easy considering it happens all the time. now if he says she DOESNT have a pencil which is a possibility (she may even lie) or even if she is telling the truth, pull one out of your pocket and say the same thing "oh nevermind, i don't need it" this way, in both situations you are showing that you don't "need" her pencil. this will work out alot better if she did have a pencil so you could give it back to her, which im sure WILL cause her to think about why you didn't just keep it BECAUSE she is very attractive. if she doesn't have the pencil, throw in a neg, if she's blond say "oh i forgot you're just a blond" with a SMILE on your face and EC (eye contact). if she isn't blond and doesn't ahve an EXTRA pencil, say "i didn't know you were blonde on the inside" with a SMILE on your face. and give yourself some support like "all intelligent people should carry extra pencils" or whatever, as long it justifies your comment, so she knows where u are coming from. play it by ear from there, work with what her reactions are. be playful, don't insult her. if you say that blonde comment with no smile, and a straight face it will seem like you are just an asshole. if she is into you, 3 IOIs work it in (smiling) "see this is why we will never be able to hang out, you are so unreliable!" you get my points? i am NOT a pro, i just started to learn a few days ago, so if any PUA Addict wants to object or correct any of my statements, please do. be yourself man, good luck, hope this helps. |
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| Author: | Rye [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 3:36 pm ] |
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oh and as for the shyness thing you have viewtopic.php?p=29711 check out my post on how to overcome it, or how i did at least. once u feel comfortable and are over shyness, THEN take the next step and talk to her in class. you are in class with her all semester, you have pleny of time to overcome ur shyness. click on that link and check it out. in the meantime, since u sit across from her, make EC and give her a smile. just think of a funny thought and force yourself to make EC, same concept. |
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| Author: | Gemo21x [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 3:37 pm ] |
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Alright man thanks a lot. I have class with her in about 20 minutes. I will let you know how it goes. |
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