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| Author: | Helmet88 [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 9:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Defensive girls with low self-esteem |
How do I penetrate the guards of defensive girls with low self-esteems? What is the best method? I know they do not like alpha males or over-confidence shining through. Do I also have to project a low self-esteem to get their interest? |
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| Author: | AshleyL [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 9:33 pm ] |
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Just out of curiosity-- why would you want a woman with low self esteem?? |
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| Author: | Helmet88 [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 9:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why? |
Well...I really like this one girl with a low self-esteem. It does not make her a bad person. So, can anyone answer the original question? |
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| Author: | negsta [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 9:53 pm ] |
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Percieved value, use shotgun negs and compliments to build her value relative to yours while hiding interest at first. Quiet girls and low self-worth girls are often amazing people, and great fun, once they've opened up to you. |
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| Author: | AshleyL [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 9:56 pm ] |
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Okay, just as long you aren't targeting girls with low self esteem, that's cool lol. I don't have any particular "tactics" like the previous poster, but I do suggest being careful. Anyone with low self esteem may not have what it takes to sustain a successful, healthy relationship. It's psychologically impossible to give "good energy" if you don't have any stored up about yourself, or anything else for that matter. |
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| Author: | negsta [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 10:04 pm ] |
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P.S:A shotgun neg is something like blowing your nose in front of her, to show you're not interested. You don't want to go attacking her self-esteem, which is why you don't use the more popular sniper-neg(a backhanded compliment). Good luck man, hope things work out. |
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| Author: | Helmet88 [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 10:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Thanks |
AshleyL and negsta - thanks for the input. Good points both of you. |
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