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| Author: | igetit [ Fri Apr 23, 2010 3:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | She met me at my job...what now? |
I work in a mall, and met this cute girl. We hit it off and she wound up following me around getting gamed for the better part of 30 minutes. She was giving IOI's, I was kinoing, she was DLV as i DHV...I gamed her for 30 minutes and never even exchanged names. it was all good. I wind up finding out she works in a store in the mall too. Several times I had to walk off to go do some stuff as my job and I wouldn't say bye. She would normally follow or come back in a bit, but the last time I did, she left the store. I don't know the best way how to approach her now. She told me where she works, but it would seem way to obvious to go in and chat it up with her... what should I do? |
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| Author: | Brendan [ Fri Apr 23, 2010 4:36 am ] |
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Just go up and say hi and start a conversation about anything. Perhaps something you talked about when you met her.. You don't need an opener or anything fancy.. Just say hello and start a conversation. |
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| Author: | (TJ)maze [ Fri Apr 23, 2010 4:52 am ] |
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There is tones of girls where i work (a hotel) and I have a few methods i use to move attraction forward. The best example of this is to go for lunch at the same time (dont stalk her to the cafe obviously) but just find yourself there around the same time as her. i would usually sit close to her with a newspaper and read for a few mins to briefly show disinterest and before you know it a conversation is flowing, if she doesn't engage right away you can easily take an article from the paper and ask for her opinion. This works well for me with our staff cafe at work but may not for you, just an idea. Another great lock in position is to drive a girl home from work, if you know she is walking or taking the bus (pretty much anything but driving herself) then i would always subtly imply that it wouldn't be any trouble to give her a lift "i live that way and could drop ya" for example. This has led to bedroom time for me more than once. Its amazing how many times they will ask "so what are you up to now" after getting into the car. The best part of this however is that you can get past the work relationship and move forward to something more personal, once she knows you outside of work she will open up a lot more. It sounds like she is keen from what you have said, id say just work on getting more face time and remember to lean back, relax and DHV |
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| Author: | Tal0n [ Fri Apr 23, 2010 7:10 pm ] |
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yeah, the car ride idea is a good one, also the just showing up at the food court at the same time thing is nice. Aside from that I think, based on what you've told us, that you're safe going to her job to say hi without it being a DLV. Try to establish a few IODs and then get her number so you can see her after work. |
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