Quote: I was going to suggest that you should maybe pull her aside and say;
"I can tell you something about you that no one else can. You look and act confident and strong on the outside, but inside you are really fragile, delicate and frightened of what other people think of you. There have been guys who have made you feel this way and that is why you dont let anyone in."
- Memento
I'm new so I will most definatly take peoples word when they are more experienced than me, but don't all girls know that anyway? I am friends (by choice) with some girls that are considered hot, but just aren't my type. This has given me insight into a girls head and life that has lead me to believe that all girls are insecure, almost crazy (side note: also gross, burp fart stuff they will never let us see). If girls are always approached, they've never experience cold rejection. I tried to get this girl to approach her crush, she couldn't bring herself to do it; she continued to be around and hang out (it's remarkably similar to AFC behavior).
Back to the point: You message may not be new to them, so if I ever had to use this phrase, I wouldn't lose the first sentence; it makes it seem like it's a big deal you know something obvious. I'm not challenging your technique in the least but can't you imagine this in a more blunt/concerned tone saying.
"If you learn to be yourself around me we could have some fun." I haven't had the need to use it, but I would feel more comfortable using it; it feels less canned because it's simple enough that it should be how you really feel.
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