I sometimes fall into the same 2 pits with girls.
In reality like at a party last saturday im generally pretty cool, afterwards the girl i liked added me on msn without me asking for it.
i knew she was interested but i held her off a bit and she asked a friend of hers my email (ioi)
We havent actually talked on msn untill now.
She started the convo, quite normal.. and after a short while she goes self-pitying about her life. That nobody likes her, that she has got no friends, that she had a flat tire. all that sorta crap. (I think it is a shittest, and how do i deal with it. I dont know how to respond (pit#1))
after a while i was trying to make her feel better, so i told her a story that i had a dream about her where she was sitting under a tree and she totally interrupts me the whole time (it was on msn, but still it was annoying so i tried to keep her in place by saying no, then this happened. because she was like yeah and i was holding a gun! and she even went like yeah and then i ran off to my biyfriend and we had real hard sex!)
note that she has not got a boyfriend.
then after a while the convo went dead and she goes like:
have you got something interesting to say? (Pit #2)
Seriously this is not the first time this happened to me
WTF am i doing wrong !
also as i am ignoring her right now, (im pretending to be chatting with a hot girl who wants to meet me tomorrow lol
) and i told her that girl is a modelSteke (9:44 PM):
lol the girl wants to meet me
HB (9:44 PM):
So?
HB (9:45 PM):
What do you think that im gonna say?
How good for you?.=__=
HB (9:48 PM):
Nice that everything is going so good for you
Steke (9:48 PM):
thx
HB (9:49 PM):
=__=
It is fucking not fair
Steke (9:53 PM):
Holy shit there's lightning here
HB (9:54 PM):
Yeah, same here over my head
HB (9:59 PM):
I hope that that bitch has got a real dirty pussy with rashes and a nasty smell. xD
Steke (10:00 PM):
ah gross!
HB (10:00 PM):
Seems funny to me
Steke (10:00 PM):
no she is hot
she is a model and stuff
HB: I wanted to become a model too
HB: But im too fat
Steke: Ok
HB: No wonder I cant get anyone
HB (10:14 PM):
I have to go
bye
HB (10:15 PM):
Your other conversations are more important of course
*She is not fat at all, she is just trying to get me to pity her or something
I dont know how to deal with this
i want her to be attracted to me, but i cant work with a girl like this
Please help
Tell me what yall think
and what do i say to her the next time she is online, or dont i say anything at all