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Author:  Hank Moody [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 1:31 am ]
Post subject:  opinions welcome about hb 8 and where i went wrong
hi there, hope everyone is good.

ok so i have been gaming a hb8 for about 3 weeks,

my first night was a success with her, met this girl through a friend, group of us were out, never met most of them before. got on well with most of the ppl there. was very much centre of attention

i gamed her and other girl well, had her friend all over me and i froze hb8 out, by the end of the night she was constantly seeking my approval.

ok first mistake, decided to go in her work and get her number, she works at my local supermarket. went in shit it and said will see her friday, would contact my mate about it. mate then told me he wasnt going out. i went in the next day again to find out where they were meeting.

she could see i was nervous, went out friday with them, she totally saw me coming and gave me a few iod's even tried to set me up with other girl. didnt go well cos other girl wasnt interested (i tried) yes i know chode or what.

so went out with them on the saturday night, froze her out again, just didnt pay her any attention, she was seeking my attention within 10 mins. did this most of the night, every time i turned round she was dancin near me. anyway end of the night i offered her my arm to walk us to the taxi stand.

when i got home got a text asking if i got home safe. as i had some of the guys numbers to add, had no idea it was her as i had not given her my number, just said ye we all got home ok.

made a bit of chit chat with her last week at her work, then went out with them this sunday. for a quiet drink, she was being bitchy generally but had no idea why???

anyway chatted a bit at the end of the night, we were talking about turn ons and she said teth and asked to see mine, she said they were ok. i said ears then moved her hair to see hers. she moved back but asked what had touched her looking down at me, my earphones were dangling sown so dont know if this was her excuse as i touched her or not.

anyway got home and had a text from her "hope u got home ok from me hb8 hehe x"

anyway i got this late and realised she had my number. anyway texxt next day "sorry i didnt reply didnt get your text til today hope u were not up all night worrying about me xx"

hb8 "i couldnt sleep i worry a lot x x x"

this was yesterday so today i text (i know i should have called but i bottled it) "wow i never knew u cared enough about me to stay up all night worrying so i thought i would return the favour by taking you out for a drink after work tonight x hank.

hb8 "sounds nice but got to take my friends home from work, but thanks lol hope your good though x"

so im not exactly sure what i should have done differently and what i should do next, if anything.

i have been kinda invited out with the group on saturday and will probably go out with them on sunday night, although im not sure she will be there on sunday as i get there late.

thanks for help. Hank
Author:  Sharplin [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 1:46 am ]
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Girls are so fuckin confusing. This is what gets me all the time, they change! Girls change the way they approach you, their attitudes, things about them change so often (not always PMS).

This girl just kept giving you shit tests eh? Well all I can think of is that you seemed TOO interested. If you are too invested in your relationship with this girl developing, she will see that. Girls are so intuitive. You gotta push and pull, throw in a few negs here and there (DONT misinterpret this: A FEW negs, not MILLIONS. In 8 hours of conversation, 3 seconds should be negging.)

Anyway, with that last text you sent, you seemed too interested in my opinion. Relax with the dates thing, its cool but you don't NEED a date.

Think about this, all I can think of.
Author:  ~Finesse [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 2:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: opinions welcome about hb 8 and where i went wrong
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anyway chatted a bit at the end of the night, we were talking about turn ons and she said teth and asked to see mine, she said they were ok. i said ears then moved her hair to see hers.
I like this. Kudos for this, bro. Nice improv and taking advantage of the oppurtunity for kino in intimate area. Tasty.

Now I've seen a bigger chunk of the ineraction, I'm not doubting the attraction as much. Though it does seem a bit sketchy at times, I deff think there is at least some attraction there, and that being said, you REALLY need to assume attraction, but I think you gonna have to game this proper smooth/solid/raw/hard/intense. I dont think its a necessity. But it may sound like its at a point where you could slip off her 'potential fuck' category and into any of the other shitty ones you dont want.

I coudn't really suggest what to do next. Just GAME her up. Kino the bitch, sexual escalation, etc etc. Just step it up, but do it while appealing to her 'good girl' side, stealth attraction style, baby.

Sorry I couldn't be more help for now.

~Liquid Blend
Author:  Mr Archer [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 2:08 am ]
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OK Hank. Short of implementing full Mr Archer Method I'll suggest the following:

Give it a couple days to cool off. Maybe you showed too much interest in your last message. Definitely asking for a date over text isn't the way to go unless you just can't get her on the phone.

Worst case you see her again on Saturday and try to rebuild the attraction then.

Shit tests are usually just ways of seeing if you're a weirdo, as in you know how things should work socially. So if she feels you showed too much interest, she's probably going to call it off to see how you react and make sure you're not going to freak out and start stalking her and eat her dog.
Author:  JasonDursing [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 2:24 am ]
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I reckon your doing good.

I think you should continue txts then when you go see her phase her out :P
She will be like...wtf he txts me and shit but wen we meet he doesnt pay attention to me....

then after awhile you start giving her attention as well as neging her abit and kinoing the fuck out of her every time u have an opportunity...

then start paying attention to other friends and that...

Then when she wants to be with you more, slowly move to the transition of that...as well as throwing in a few kinos and shit. maybe a neg or to.

Thats wat i recon but I am still pretty AFC.

So any older guys wanna shut me down thats alright..just let me know wat i should of told the hankster.

<3
Author:  ~Finesse [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 2:27 am ]
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throw in a few negs here and there (DONT misinterpret this: A FEW negs, not MILLIONS. In 8 hours of conversation, 3 seconds should be negging.)
Neg guidelines are stupid. I neg most girls all the way through midgame and there on after. But that's just me, and it is highly calbirated and part of who I am, and how I've been interacting with people my whole life. So it works for me. I only reccommend a neg/tease if it has purpose other than beign a neg. If you can use it to lead into something, or a playful little banter, this is a very effective/useful use of a neg.

~Liquid Blend
Author:  Sharplin [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 3:47 am ]
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throw in a few negs here and there (DONT misinterpret this: A FEW negs, not MILLIONS. In 8 hours of conversation, 3 seconds should be negging.)
Neg guidelines are stupid. I neg most girls all the way through midgame and there on after. But that's just me, and it is highly calbirated and part of who I am, and how I've been interacting with people my whole life. So it works for me. I only reccommend a neg/tease if it has purpose other than beign a neg. If you can use it to lead into something, or a playful little banter, this is a very effective/useful use of a neg.

~Liquid Blend
Good point.
Author:  Dj Viral [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 7:12 am ]
Post subject:  Asshole theory
If you ask me this girl's the type of person that is constantly the center of attention, so cat and string theory. You keep pulling the string, she's into you, but the exact moment you stop, she completely loses interest. So if you REALLY want this chick, you're gonna be have to be an asshole to her. I'm talking about continuous cold-shoulder followed by a moment of acknolowedgement. Then back and forth.

dJ vIrAl
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