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| Author: | nuskulu [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 2:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Breaking her shyness - NEED HELP ASAP |
Here is the thing... I met this girl online... she liked me and I kinda liked her, she seamed fun, so we exchanged numbers and we met this sunday... Now, the problem was that this girl, although she is a HB8, is very shy and withdrawn... naturally i talked my head of and I made her laugh and talk a bit... at one point we sat down in a park, nothing special, a few kids and their parents were around... we talked about stuff i did the cube, the trust test with palms (the one where you ask her to give you her hands) and I tried the kiss routine by asking her does she wanna kiss me... She hesitated a bit, and said no. I finished the routine as Mystery suggests by saying: Well i didn't say you can I just taught you wanted to kiss me because of the way you looked at me... By the hesitation I can tell that she wanted to kiss me but she didn't want to be a ONS. I can respect that because she really is a sweet girl... So anyway I want to break this shyness with her and hopefully kiss her and break her ice once and for all... Any ideas or routines that I can use in order to kiss her? We're supposed to go out tomorrow so i really could use some help ASAP. Thanks in advance... |
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| Author: | SirKonstantine [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 8:05 am ] |
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Its called the Claw. You grab her. and you kiss her. No verbals needed. All it requires is a penis, and maybe a boner. [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BRLUn9Cz8E[/youtube] My friend Sabster demonstrating it [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2nP5HjrQItM[/youtube] [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hEFfI-phgOw[/youtube] |
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| Author: | nuskulu [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 12:28 pm ] |
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only one problem... this girl isn't comfortable with kino... when I tried to hug her she'd just gently move away... unless i grabbed her by the elbow to physically move her she would resist.... also, she would be with crossed arms and legs all the way trough the first date... |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 12:49 pm ] |
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Sounds like you didn't kino escalate properly. You can never expect to get a k-close if you haven't already worked your way up through touching her arm, shoulder, and at least small of back FIRST. It's too much of a sharp transition. Try to ingrain the 3-kinos in 1-minute rule into your interactions, it'll make escalation a whole lot easier. The closed-off body language sounds like she wasn't really that into you, but was just being polite and nice. I wasn't there so I can't say for sure, but it sounds like it. Work on building attraction through rapport breaks (or negs), DHVing, and getting her to qualify herself. A great way to break a girl out of a shy or unresponsive shell is to get her to start qualifying herself to you. If there's already a hint of attraction there, and you state how much you like FUN, OUTGOING girls, then she's gonna start trying to prove that she is one. REWARD her with kino. |
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| Author: | nuskulu [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 1:25 pm ] |
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i negged her.... i gave her so many negs that i lost count... and she'd laugh and tell me i give strange compliments  so... i should press reset on her, and start all over, build attraction and kino escalate for a kiss... hm... i can give it a shot... got nothing to loose... only experience to gain.... |
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| Author: | nuskulu [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 6:18 pm ] |
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she started to avoid me.... so i told her that i don't weanna listen to that crap and told her to fuck off |
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| Author: | Bormad [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 6:50 pm ] |
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No worries you will be able to move on from this and have a better understanding with the next shy girl you meet
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 7:27 pm ] |
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Quote: she started to avoid me.... so i told her that i don't weanna listen to that crap and told her to fuck off
Well that was constructive. Good thing you bothered listening to our advice then 
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| Author: | nuskulu [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 8:06 pm ] |
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well as i said on the other PUA forum.... lesson learned life goes on... |
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