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| Author: | Luciiz [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 3:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Quiet alpha male vs Sociable beta male |
So obviously IMO the loud alpha male is going to be the most attractive to girls. But say there was an alpha male who rarely talks, but when ever he opened his mouth said something very alpha, has alpha body language and alpha voice tonality with little (0-2 girls max) VS A very sociable beta male who doesn't have the alpha body language/tonality/words of an alpha (although he doesn't act like a complete homosexual, people can tell he's straight), but has about 10 girls of preselection, and is talking to every girls and laughing, joking etc. Which one is the most attractive to women, do you think? Which is more likely to get laid? Poll to come. |
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| Author: | Crowd [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 9:38 pm ] |
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If a guy plays it beta, he will never be anything but a friend. The example you provided sounds like Zan's example of a lot of high, and no low. High energy is the joking around, charming, pleasurable company side of the masculine energy. Low energy is the direct, sexual, and penetrating energy that conveys sexual interest. If your too high, you'll stay a friend. If your too low, you'll be the creepy perv that is incapable of obtaining women. A mixture of both is healthy and very necessary. Being alpha is important, but being able to move beyond this construct is something men have to do for themselves (i.e. Learn how to be alpha, then stop putting so much emphasis on who is alpha. If your running a tight game, it doesn't matter. You should be able to game next to other alpha's and be equally bad-ass.) Needless to say, I think if you had an option for neither, I would have picked that. However, given the polling options, I picked alpha because the beta guy doesn't have enough sexual undercurrent to show these women that he can be a lover. |
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| Author: | expat_of_love [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 3:42 am ] |
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Loud people are annoying. America is a VERY loud and annoying culture. You can hear a chubby American broad from a mile away. Their laugh just annoys the hell out of me. So fake. Same goes for the dude who is the jerk who is always slapping guys on the back. When I was stuck 24/7 in America I always positioned myself with my back to a wall. That way I was on guard against such characters. Try having class and listening. People fall in love with those who listen. The problem with many on here is that they are still just too young. As a young guy you get no respect or attention. It is the best time for you to look inward. Grow and learn. Being the loudest guy in the room will only make many people hate your guts. |
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