PUA Forum :: [Need answer quickly] Should I go to a club alone??

If you know people who are going to be there, then why not. Or if you know that you're very good socially or have the confidence, then it wouldn't be a huge problem in a busy club. If not then i wouldn't recommend it.
I've never been to a nightclub on my own (though i have to bars and pubs, also wonder off alot in nightclubs), but if i did this is what i would do. Probably start off by asking a few random people short questions like 'is it busy in there tonight', 'do you know where the tiolets are, someone said they where down here. Cheers thanks', if it was possible maybe ask the barman what cocktails he recommends or something, casual comments or whatever, you get the idea.
Then find a set of nice looking girls (doesn't matter if they're attractive or not) and friendly girls (preferably no guys in the set), then open with somethng like 'hi you look friendly, are you friendly?' wait for answer (9 times out of 10 it will be 'yes' and if not it's only because they're messing, so use that answer to your advantage) If it's a bad reaction, then you've just saved yourself from opening a bad set, to eject just say something like 'i was just going to ask you for the time' and walk off. If they say yes 'great, i've just came from (insert name of bar here) and im supposed to meeting some of my friends here, but i've walked around the bar and got myself self a drink and they don't seem to be here YET. Has anything ever happened to you like that before?' If yes, right you're in and now they're talking to you and possibely telling you a short story. If No, then 'oh only me then?!?!'.
Introce yourself, brief question(s) and/or compliment and so on.

It doesn't have to be word for word, that's just an example of how that works.
It does the job, especially if you force an IOI first like smile and she smiles back, it can not go wrong. (unless you're opening a 1 set and there's an angry boyfriend located near by)
When going out to clubs (especially on your own), you shouldn't set yourself any targets, other than to go out meet a few girls and have a conversation with them. Just by doing that you're increasing your chances of getting a girl more than 10 fold.

Author:	Spike007 [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 2:40 am ]
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My friend with who I was supposed to go to a club with can't. I really want to go because I know some chicks who will be there but I didn't find anyone to come with me. Should I go anyway, by myself? I never went to a club alone. I need a fast answer please because I want to know in arround 30-45min if I should go out.

Author:	Spike007 [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 3:37 am ]
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Not even an answer?? Please I want to know if it's lame to go out alone. I always hang out with a group so I have no idea what I would do alone.

Author:	SirKonstantine [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 4:25 am ]
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yeah. go out. Going SOLO is AMAZING for your game. The success of your night is totally dependent upon you.

Author:	Mortal [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 5:21 am ]
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By posting on this forum asking if you should go solo tells me your not ready. You need the confidence to be able to go out yourself without the social proof of your buddies. If you can direct your life with out the reassurance of others then solo clubbing is more apporpriate... regardless I hope it worked out for you.

Author:	Spike007 [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 5:48 pm ]
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You are right. If I was in college I will have no problem to approch someone, but in a club when I am sober I freeze out. Anyway I went out to try to gain the confidence I am looking for. It was not a great but because of me. The club was FULL of girls on the dancefloor (there was not even one guy). There some guys just sitting in the bar and watching. I tried to push myself to go on the dancefloor but I didn't...If I was with a buddy I would do it for sure. Anyway I think I learned a lot that night even if I didn't nothing.

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Author:	Casterlann [ Sun Nov 22, 2009 10:20 pm ]
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If you know people who are going to be there, then why not. Or if you know that you're very good socially or have the confidence, then it wouldn't be a huge problem in a busy club. If not then i wouldn't recommend it. I've never been to a nightclub on my own (though i have to bars and pubs, also wonder off alot in nightclubs), but if i did this is what i would do. Probably start off by asking a few random people short questions like 'is it busy in there tonight', 'do you know where the tiolets are, someone said they where down here. Cheers thanks', if it was possible maybe ask the barman what cocktails he recommends or something, casual comments or whatever, you get the idea. Then find a set of nice looking girls (doesn't matter if they're attractive or not) and friendly girls (preferably no guys in the set), then open with somethng like 'hi you look friendly, are you friendly?' wait for answer (9 times out of 10 it will be 'yes' and if not it's only because they're messing, so use that answer to your advantage) If it's a bad reaction, then you've just saved yourself from opening a bad set, to eject just say something like 'i was just going to ask you for the time' and walk off. If they say yes 'great, i've just came from (insert name of bar here) and im supposed to meeting some of my friends here, but i've walked around the bar and got myself self a drink and they don't seem to be here YET. Has anything ever happened to you like that before?' If yes, right you're in and now they're talking to you and possibely telling you a short story. If No, then 'oh only me then?!?!'. Introce yourself, brief question(s) and/or compliment and so on. It doesn't have to be word for word, that's just an example of how that works. It does the job, especially if you force an IOI first like smile and she smiles back, it can not go wrong. (unless you're opening a 1 set and there's an angry boyfriend located near by) When going out to clubs (especially on your own), you shouldn't set yourself any targets, other than to go out meet a few girls and have a conversation with them. Just by doing that you're increasing your chances of getting a girl more than 10 fold.

Author:	Spike007 [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 1:10 am ]
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Quote: If you know people who are going to be there, then why not. Or if you know that you're very good socially or have the confidence, then it wouldn't be a huge problem in a busy club. If not then i wouldn't recommend it. I've never been to a nightclub on my own (though i have to bars and pubs, also wonder off alot in nightclubs), but if i did this is what i would do. Probably start off by asking a few random people short questions like 'is it busy in there tonight', 'do you know where the tiolets are, someone said they where down here. Cheers thanks', if it was possible maybe ask the barman what cocktails he recommends or something, casual comments or whatever, you get the idea. Then find a set of nice looking girls (doesn't matter if they're attractive or not) and friendly girls (preferably no guys in the set), then open with somethng like 'hi you look friendly, are you friendly?' wait for answer (9 times out of 10 it will be 'yes' and if not it's only because they're messing, so use that answer to your advantage) If it's a bad reaction, then you've just saved yourself from opening a bad set, to eject just say something like 'i was just going to ask you for the time' and walk off. If they say yes 'great, i've just came from (insert name of bar here) and im supposed to meeting some of my friends here, but i've walked around the bar and got myself self a drink and they don't seem to be here YET. Has anything ever happened to you like that before?' If yes, right you're in and now they're talking to you and possibely telling you a short story. If No, then 'oh only me then?!?!'. Introce yourself, brief question(s) and/or compliment and so on. It doesn't have to be word for word, that's just an example of how that works. It does the job, especially if you force an IOI first like smile and she smiles back, it can not go wrong. (unless you're opening a 1 set and there's an angry boyfriend located near by) When going out to clubs (especially on your own), you shouldn't set yourself any targets, other than to go out meet a few girls and have a conversation with them. Just by doing that you're increasing your chances of getting a girl more than 10 fold. You make it sound so simple I like it. However it's hard to actually have a conversation in a nightclub, but I guess I can try. Thank you.

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