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| Author: | Rockd [ Sat Nov 21, 2009 7:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | recovering from bad rapport |
im in a smaller high school with a bout 150 students in each grade. ive always been fairly sociable and ive known these kids for about 4 years, problem is that over those years my rapport has been/is bad with some, average with others, and great with a few. like when i talk in a group with people that i think ive developed a poor rapport over the last 4 years (but i think there fun and some hbs are in this group) no matter what i really say it seems they overlook it. many times im with them i feel intimidated by such a long history of feeling inadequate to them and i freeze up and go silent. any suggestions on what this is/how to improve in this situation. other comments on this situation are appreciated too. |
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| Author: | Monkey [ Sat Nov 21, 2009 7:30 pm ] |
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This is what we call "high school." You'll grow out of it. As for "recovering from bad rapport," I would suggest "Don't." Move on, don't worry about it, talk to other people. There are many people. You should talk to some of them that don't already dislike you. |
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| Author: | Rockd [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 2:41 pm ] |
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well id be fine with moving on if there were other people to talk to and there is some but not a whole lot. the area i live in is sort of isolated so out of my high school there's little opportunities, i was just wondering if i could make the rest of my high school easier by recovering rapport with some people. |
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| Author: | maninquestion [ Mon Nov 23, 2009 4:50 pm ] |
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As a suggestion about life, not really picking up, particularly. I'd apply to some larger colleges out of the area, if I were you. The life lessons you'll learn from breaking out of a small town environment are invaluable, especially if you plan to return one day. |
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| Author: | SmoothRider [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 1:28 am ] |
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Surround yourself with abundance. Do an entourage game and you will seem like the star of a Hollywood movie. Learn some deep rapport techniques and work your way into some female groups. Escalate and allow yourself to go kino on these girls. Within a few months, if you work hard, I'm sure they will love you and hopefully you'll have an entourage of 5-10 women. Go for the leader in the groups and make her fall for you. The rest will come pretty easily then  Good luck. |
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| Author: | zanibar [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 1:32 am ] |
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Are you still in that same High School? If so , talk to the HB's or maybe practice at the mall, then talk to the HB's at your school.. If you can get something out of it and hang out or casually know all the other HB's then the HB's in your group should notice you more if they see the other girls interested in you. |
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| Author: | Rockd [ Tue Nov 24, 2009 7:38 pm ] |
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thanks for the replies, I plan to move to a bigger college far away so there will be many HBs there to game but until then i just want to shape up my game. I've been doing kino and these girls are just so comfortable with me now i didnt think i could get this close to them. ive mostly been doing hugs, touches on the arm and the occasional slap on the leg or even boob (ive known some of these girls for years so its fine). im working around the bad rapport by befriending pretty much everyone i talk to so i get a wide status and i try to be liked by everyone. Ill see about going for the leader of the group but it's hard for me to pick out the leader because not all of the groups seem to have one. thanks for the advice ill put it to good use. |
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