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| Author: | Falcony [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girls who mention other guys to try and intimidate you |
Sometimes I meet girls who I think I am getting on well with then talk deliberately about other guys and how hot they think they are just to try and annoy me. I don't rise to the bait and tell her she should get married to him or something. That does not deter her and she just says something like 'I wish'. These are in the minority of girls and it seems like they are doing it deliberately to try and annoy me. Only thing I do is neg back and move onto the next girl as it does put me off sometimes. It is a bit insecure to try and do that deliberately and have a bad attitude towards someone you don't know because they are having a bad day/night or whatever. I do neg a bit harshly sometimes because I think it is rude and they do need putting in their places. |
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| Author: | Somerset [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 7:55 pm ] |
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automatic reply thats just popped up in my head as soon as I read your post was "oh behave (name).......why would they want you?" now personally i think any girl lower than a hb7.5-8 will take major offence at this and crush their self esteem some what. so im saving it for the hb9 and 10s that play that 'ohh hes so hot card' |
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| Author: | Harem [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 8:18 pm ] |
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I had exactly the same thing today - i was on a date with a vogue model of all people and she started saying how hot my best friend was - so i allowed her it. If you act like you dont give a shit about their opinion of other guys it drives them crazy! In fact i agreed with her - yeah he is such a good guy, you should totally hook up with him - this made me seem like the better prize. I'm going to go over all of this in a field report so look out for it! Harem x |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 8:26 pm ] |
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its not to annoy, its a shit test, to see what kind of stuff you're made of |
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| Author: | NonStopReaper [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 8:39 pm ] |
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definitly a shit test. |
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| Author: | Falcony [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 9:39 pm ] |
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I like what Somerset said I'm going to try that, But the rest of you already tried agreeing with her and saying they should hook up or whatever but she still continues so is it really a shit test or or her just being retarded? |
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| Author: | The Wicker Man [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 9:58 pm ] |
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Quote: now personally i think any girl lower than a hb7.5-8 will take major offence at this and crush their self esteem some what.
Do you use a calculator when you rate women?
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 9:58 pm ] |
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some girls just suck at shit testing. obviously, give her a reason to focus on you instead of them. |
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| Author: | DonPua [ Tue Oct 20, 2009 10:05 pm ] |
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I also received comments like that. A girl even mentioned me once that she was going to get a massage from some guy sitting at the table across. Of course, she was bullsh*tting. In your case I would reply like: "You know what ? If you introduce me to your good looking friend over there and make a good word for me, than I will help you with that guy." If she introduces you to her friend, just start gaming her friend and forget about the one you initially opened. Just pretend she doesn't exist. If she interrupts you and forces you to help her with that guy, just tell her "Hey missie, I am in the middle of a conversation. Remind me later about it." That is the best punishment you can give to a girl as stupid as that one. |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Wed Oct 21, 2009 1:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls who mention other guys to try and intimidate you |
Quote: I do neg a bit harshly sometimes because I think it is rude and they do need putting in their places.
Why? Is it your goal to provide girls with etiquette lessons and then go home by yourself?
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| Author: | kasabi [ Wed Oct 21, 2009 1:48 am ] |
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Too many guys get frustrated when things don't go their way and fall back to habitual actions that are driven by negative emotions. In my mind, this occurs primarily because like the OP, you don't think you have the correct answer for a particular situation. When this occurs, we slide down that chain of confusion - fear - anger - physical demonstration of anger. . . Well, showing your anger is seldom the formula for to create attraction. And "negging", at least in the way MM defines it, has NOTHING to do with outlet of negative emotions. If you have the gift of the gab, you can squirrel your way through every situation but how many of us possess this talent? So, instead of reading a 1,000 books on the art of conversation, SIMPLIFY. Turn every situation into one situation. Understand that a girl telling you, "Wow, that guy is gorgeous", is no different than, "You're kinda short", "You're not my type", etc . . . Of course you can't offer the same reply for each one of these statements but you CAN offer the same style of answer. I'm sure the more experienced guys have their own styles but I have lots of fun with the "Yes Man". AGREE with EVERYTHING. . . This isn't to be confused with "agree with everything". I mean AGREE WITH IT. Take it over the top. Let's she what's she's made of . . . Call her on her little bluff to show you her cards. So . . . she goes, "Wow, that guy is gorgeous" and you go, "Who, where . . . oh . . . yeah . . . he's a good looking guy . . . come on, let's go meet him. I'll introduce you." And before she has a chance to get ready or even understand what's going on, you just grab her by the wrist and start walking in that guy's direction. Here's how it plays out: 1. She pulls back and you go, "Oh . . . you chicken, pwak, pwak, pwak. . . Come on, you'd make a good couple." (And guess what, her nerves now start getting the best of her. Believe me, girls get approach anxiety just as much as guys do . . .and now you're just rubbing it in.) Then you shift gears to your own agenda, "Oh . . . look how cute you look when you blush. So adorable . . .(give her a smooch) What you're doing is diverting her heightened emotions towards attraction for you . . . 2. She weakly follows you to the guy and you tell him, "Hey, what's up. Nice to meet you man, my name is _______. This is ______. Then you lean in a bit and tell him, "She's been eyeballing you for a while now, I think she's got a little crush on you . . ." Loud enough so that the girl can hear you. Basically, you say all the things that sound like you're setting them up but you're actually "cock blocking" the girl. Two things might occur. Usually, an attractive guy wants a challenge. A girl from a bar being introduced by a "guy friend" is no challenge and looks it like a dorky set-up date situation to his friends. Secondly, the girl is put on the spot will feel nervous regardless of whether the guy shows interest or not. Then you just leave the two to chat and have a ball. . . "Have fun kids!" Unless this is the end of the night when all the lonely people are scavenging for their lays for the night, the girl will come back to you. |
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| Author: | baloo [ Wed Oct 21, 2009 5:04 pm ] |
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i agree with kasabi here, this is clearly a shit test and you'd be failing it if you neg too hard that'll express insecurity/jealously which is exactly what she wants if you give her the exact opposite of that she'll see that your different than most guys |
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| Author: | Somerset [ Wed Oct 21, 2009 8:41 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: now personally i think any girl lower than a hb7.5-8 will take major offence at this and crush their self esteem some what.
Do you use a calculator when you rate women?anything else you want to know pumpkin? |
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| Author: | sinsitive [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 9:00 am ] |
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Well what I usually do looks a BIT Like Kasabi's reaction... "Oh really? Yeah he seems hot, what kind of guy is he" " bla bla into bla bla" "really? Oh wow, sounds like a cool guy I could hang out with. You see I do bla bla and we'd be a good team!" From that point I pretend that me and the guy are equals, ignore her a bit and all of a sudden I am interesting again..  Works pretty good but you gotta finetune how to play it.
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| Author: | Mindwarp [ Wed Nov 25, 2009 9:23 am ] |
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My first thought: "Really? Want to see if he wants a threesome?" It simultaneously shows that your interested in sex with her while being casual and playful, witty and that you are undeterred by her attempt to invoke a jealousy plot. |
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