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| Author: | spiderman1 [ Sat Jul 29, 2006 11:10 pm ] |
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alright heres the deal came back from cottage a week ago, this 7 wont answer my calls,, seems like we're fading away, i dont really care for her much but i still havent fucked her. she was supposed to come up to the cottage but we got into arguement before we left. my best bet is that her insecurity thought her to believe i was screwing other girls while i was away (she did question me about it) and she wanting revenge hooked up with another guy (im guessing lol) anwyays, how do i get her attention again.. shes not responding to txt or calls.... so far im thinking no contact and see if she tries tocall me but i have my doubts she will.. Any ideas?? let me know |
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| Author: | Shaft [ Sun Jul 30, 2006 12:11 am ] |
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Well how much are you calling and txting her. Maybe you need to freeze her out. Obviously she is mad at you. You weren't really specific on what the fight was about or how long you have known her so I can't really help you out with those details. But ya the freeze out always seems to work out for me. Just stop talking to her and let her come back to you. If she likes you then she will wonder why you have stopped talking and should respond back to you. So ya you have the right idea with shutting down contact with her. Besides if she doesn't call you, you don't have to worry there are other fish in the sea. |
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| Author: | spiderman1 [ Sun Jul 30, 2006 4:21 am ] |
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ok, so far ive chilled with her for about a month and a half id say this is the thing,, when we got back from the cottage she told me her friend died and she hasnt been tlaking ot me since, mainly short phone calls thats it but its pretty much when i call. then she stopped taking calls and so i stopped calling her cuz shes only a 7 and im not wasting my time on that. so im freezing her out if she doesnt call then i guess shes missing out. besides, the only reason im interested in becoming a successful PUA is so that i dont need to worry about girls like these. im just gonna go find more.. but i will keep you posted if something happens with this 7HB -im out |
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| Author: | Ice [ Sun Jul 30, 2006 4:41 am ] |
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good attitude dude, always have the NEXT!! attitude for trouble girls. I guess that destiny screwed you this time. If her friend was Ok, you posibly could continue ok with her too. ICE |
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| Author: | Shaft [ Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:55 pm ] |
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Ya man awesome attitude, you just need to keep telling yourself that. Sure a HB7 at the bar or club will be not a bad pickup, but I am like you I wanna better myself like that so I can actually get the confidence up to go up to the two or three HB10s dancing with eachother as they shut down all the drunk and sober AMOGs that go up to and approach them. |
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| Author: | spiderman1 [ Mon Jul 31, 2006 5:15 pm ] |
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hey guys heres the deal this broad ive been talking about yeah ive been freezing her out and who knows what thats all about because she doesnt seem to be calling back.. does anyone know how to deal with a blur (female stops returning calls when she was the one interesting all along) i have no idea.. im thinking give her like a week and give her one last phone call. if she doesnt pick up then i never look back. the problem with that is that i dont wanna call her in a week and she doesnt pick up then i just look like an idiot cuz id still be calling.. any ideas ?? -spidey |
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| Author: | Shaft [ Mon Jul 31, 2006 5:25 pm ] |
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Just forget about her man. Obviously you gotta start moving on, I know your frustrated about not getting to have a Fuck close. But all this time and effort spent on this one girl, you could have spent on 10 other girls. If you call her again you just come on as a regular AFC. I mean how many guys out there, meet a girl, wanna hook back up with the girl, and keep calling her. At some point you just gotta say screw it and move on. If you call her you will just be giving in to your AFC side, (and we all have one deep down). So just forget about her. If she really wants to talk to you again she will call you. If not whatever she was not worth it. Its not like you are gonna marry her or have her be your gf is it? |
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| Author: | stimboX [ Mon Jul 31, 2006 5:26 pm ] |
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Quote: hey guys heres the deal
rather don't call at all.If she likes you she will contact you.I did that a few times before and surprisingly they got back to me and asked me what was wrong.this broad ive been talking about yeah ive been freezing her out and who knows what thats all about because she doesnt seem to be calling back.. does anyone know how to deal with a blur (female stops returning calls when she was the one interesting all along) i have no idea.. im thinking give her like a week and give her one last phone call. if she doesnt pick up then i never look back. the problem with that is that i dont wanna call her in a week and she doesnt pick up then i just look like an idiot cuz id still be calling.. any ideas ?? -spidey So do yourself a favour.and DON'T call her.Because like you said, if she doesn't answer when you try you'll look like a dick! |
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| Author: | sorin [ Tue Aug 01, 2006 12:04 am ] |
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gentleman women are not objects. they are people with feelings. genuinely care for them! and they will come rushing to you for more affection because they grieve for that kind of a man. you can be a player and her romantic hero at the same time. tell her what she longs to hear... tell her how special she is to you and that you miss her... it might be uncongruent after all the things you might have told her so far but maybe you can reframe the whole relationship into something she's looking for... and not something she runs away from... being manipulated and dumped after sex. they know what to expect. take care and good like with the girl. |
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| Author: | Shaft [ Tue Aug 01, 2006 12:23 am ] |
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Well they are people too, but we can't be gushing over the same woman and trying to strive for her attention by calling and txting all the time with no response back from her. I care for the women I meet and actually develope connections with, but if you develope a connection with a girl and then it goes cold and she stops the communication even after you are trying to woo her back, you need to step back and evaluate the situation, and move on. Its her lose is all we are saying. Also I want to add to your part on your main paragraph sorin. If you want any relationship with a girl you should be honest to her about the type of relationship you are looking for. If you just want to be FBs then tell her that, if you want a real GF then tell her that, If you want her to be one of your many GFs tell her that. |
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| Author: | sorin [ Tue Aug 01, 2006 12:33 am ] |
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It's good to be honest in a relationship. But... women have sex in order to extend the rapport they feel with you... most LMR's appear because she fears you're going to dump her after sex... So why not hide that particular detail that she's not the only one. Let her live the fantasy of her life and really enjoy her time with you  .
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| Author: | Shaft [ Tue Aug 01, 2006 12:41 am ] |
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You have a point there, but at the same time being honest can also help you. I had this HB8 that I met at the bar, I got a number close, met up with her again next week at the bar. We had a fun time went to the beach, went to her place and got ready to go to the club. I told her I wasn't looking for a serious relationship, but wanted to make the best of the time we were spending together. She was actually suprised I said that and infact I think it turned her on as we had sex that night instead of going to the bar, and the next night was the same thing dinner and sex. But I guess it all depends on the situation. But if a women has sex with you and you let her live her fantasy and lead her on, arn't you just hurting her in the end? Because you have to leave at some point. |
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| Author: | spiderman1 [ Tue Aug 01, 2006 5:12 pm ] |
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hey all just wanted to keep you posted this girl here hasnt been returning my calls right? well listen to this. i froze her out trying to make her call me didnt really work. but i have her on msn messenger and the other day i changed my name and added "nah man she told me she was single" LOL anwyays that had no meaning whatso ever i just wanted to make it look like iw ent to the club or somehting and clearly she associated me with other hot girls which i didnt even meet or anything like that. Well she called me up last night asking me where ive been so on, also asks if i have a gf and if thats why ive been avoiding here hahaha. the freeze out worked perfectly,, anwyays she tells me what shes been up to stuff like that to make me wanna chill with her again assures me that shes single and wants to chill tonight.. funny thing is, its 1pm over here i just woke up and shes alrdy calling my house got an invite for a swim. its like 40 degress celcius so im gonna have to go over there take advantage of that. funny story, last night iw as playing in a poker tourney and surprisingly some chick was hitting on me, i ended it with a number close and so this other hb pushing 8 that wears a bit too much make up is in for a treat. so ive gone from not knowing what ot do with one girl, to having two girls chase me at the same time anwyays im out late |
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