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| Author: | GQute [ Sat Oct 03, 2009 8:41 am ] |
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Alright so here it goes... (I apologize in advance for the length of this post but it is for the sake of providing all the necessary details) I met this girl who was a friend of a friend last year around mid second semester (at university) and I started to like her but we both have difficult majors and lived at opposite ends of campus making it hard for us to see each other much last year. She ended up staying a night once with me but it was total chill, nothing serious. By some stroke of luck this year she moved into the same dorm as me so we see each other around alot and end up going out in the same group some time. Her roommate (who she dislikes) blatantly tried getting me to date her but I didnt. So this girl and I were supposed to go to a limited access event but roughly a week before the event, the plans fell through leaving us both free for that night. She knows that I liked her last year and if isn't dumb as to why I was asking her out for the weekend. So when I asked her to dinner in place of our original plans the intentions were fairly clear. As I said before our schedules are hard so between asking her to dinner and the actual dinner our communication was minimal. When I picked her up, she was dressed very beautiful but her demeanor toward me was as if I had done something wrong. But there was nothing that happened between asking her and the date. For the most part of dinner her responses were short and sweet without leaving any room for expanding. I got her excited once or twice where she really opened up and got very animated while talking to me but rest of the time she was either fumbling through the pages of the menu or texting her sister who she said she hadn't talked to in a very long time. So my question is... What happened? and I guess, do I take any further steps or just walk away? |
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| Author: | Slywalker [ Sat Oct 03, 2009 8:52 am ] |
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Many factors can cause this sort of behavior in a girl and it is hard to say when I haven't actually seen her behavior.. However, My guess is that the girl is using an enormous bitch shield, larger than she can control.. And She is afraid to let anyone really close to her. I was dating a girl like this before the past summer.. And the way I broke her bitch shield was by getting her out with me again,we did very casual things like starbucks, and at our meets I would astonish her with cold reading.. For example: I told her a long and complex story about how I thought that someone had hurt her in the past and now she had a hard time lowering her guard and really trust people. This is true for a lot of people and if you say it with enough confidence she will believe that it is true, this opened my girl up like magic! You can keep the cold reading going with things like the cube and similar things! Get her to talk about herself, that should open her up, and don't give up my man! |
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| Author: | GQute [ Sat Oct 03, 2009 9:02 am ] |
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Well I've been out with her before at parties,etc (both just me and her, and in big groups) and shes been over to just do the normal college chill just sitting watching tv. and in any of those scenarios shes is always very chill but nonetheless playful when the opportunity arises. The two things that are making her impossible to read (something I'm usually very good at) is that (1) she got all dressed up but had her demeanor set seemingly before I even got there. and (2) I cant decide as to whether her continuously playing with the menu was anxiety or frustration. I know that my posts only give limited insight into her, but how would you guys read these things? |
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| Author: | GQute [ Sat Oct 03, 2009 5:55 pm ] |
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I'm not gonna let this thread die quite yet, so tell me what you guys think |
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