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Author:  pse [ Tue Sep 29, 2009 3:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Comments?
Background information:
Been really good friends for under a year now. We Kino, we tease each other, She messages me a bit, we talk about personal shit like her ex's, she apperantly said my name while sleeping next to her boyfriend at the time once, etc.

Its just the whole flirty friends or more than friends blur that is getting to me, here is a recent fb chat:

Also not that I need to point it out, but She is very sarcastic in nature
Quote:
Her
oh yeah how will i lose more points, how good wuld it be if u didn talk me anymore
muuahh

Me
one day it will happen ;)

Her
u wait for that day?
i am at least

Me
says the girl who invites me out all the time :p

Her
maybe i shuld stop inviting u out, it wuld make everything so much easier

Me
thanks, love you too

Her
love u more

Me
love you more than your country love drinking

Her
vow that´s lot of love, i dont know if i can handle so much love

Me
how unfortunate

Her
it´s so much i need to sleep now and clear my brrain with vodka shots

Me
overwhelming
see you saturday!

Her
saturdayyy

Me
night :)

Her
Dreams
We're drinking at her place on sat then heading out, shes going to some farm for the next few days *shrug*, but a friend of ours (female, who I also get along with really well) is joining on sat.

Most of my friends are female, and i'm getting advice and comments from them, but I guess a second opinion won't hurt. They were initially saying that I wasn't flirting enough. Then again I didn't make a move with the last girl and things are just weird between us.

Comments?

Thanks Guys!
Author:  Jonas_Al_Caponas [ Tue Sep 29, 2009 4:32 pm ]
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You have built solid comfort with her, but to me it sounds like the attraction is a little lack luster. You have to build good attraction between the two of you. She must want you more than just a place-holder, which is what it seems like you might be right now.
My advice is to go out one night or invite her over to a comfort spot between the two of you. Initiate friendly kino. Make sure to push away after a little bit to build attraction, drama, and make her want more.
After some kino, wait for a break in conversation and look her in the eyes. If she strares back, and doesn't immidiately try to initiate conversation, take that as THEE major IOI before you kiss-close her.
There are two great lines to use at this point. Try one of these.
1.) PUA: "Be honest with me, would you like to kiss me?" HER: "Yes," (Then obviously go for it), "No"; "Maybe"; "I don't know"; PUA: "I'm not saying you can, but it just looked like you had something on your mind..." And move on to another routine. DHV, and push-pull to generate more attraction.
2.) PUA: "I don't know what's wrong with me, but I'm trying really hard not to kiss you right now." This line is usually fail-safe, and if attraction and kinos has been built, then they will start thinking about it, and want to try it.[/b]
Author:  pse [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 3:52 pm ]
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Thanks man, appreciate it. Here's an update:

Went to her house, watched a tv show (there was a scene at a strip bar, we talk about if we'd been or not, she had in europe somewhere, I've never been, we decide to go together sometime soon) we both like on her laptop, next to each other on the couch, got quite drunk, headed to the clubs to meet up with a friend.

While walking she held onto my arm (she did this to her friend as well) and we held hands for a while. I think she grabbed and slapped my ass at some point, I think I slapped her back and my hand brushed down on her ass when I was talking to her.

We went to a couple of bars, introduced the girls to my friends, etc. They left after a few hours said they may be back or not. I text the one im interested in if she's still in the city, both girls reply saying they're going home, thanks for the night, see you soon, etc etc. I play this game with the girl I like where take away points everytime she does something I don't like (reward punish, push pull, etc).

I wasn't going to reply but I ended up texting back something like "tsk tsk, im going to have to take away more points now" and she replies with "you shouldn't! it was your fault for making me feel like this" (We pretty much had half a bottle of vodka each) before I could even finish reading the text, I get another text from her telling me to have a good night and see you soon, I reply with something like "I didn't even get to take advantage of you! something something" and she replies with "hahah take advantage of me, im sure ull have your chance one day!". She soons sends me another next saying its a full moon, twice. I say if there's something we should be doing as tradition and she say 'there is! but damn im not there'.

My other friend(female) asks me if Im tapping any of those girls, I laugh and shake my head, and she says that they're beautiful and I should go for it. I text my the girl saying 'next time (regarding the moon) and my friend, she thinks you're beautiful, maybe moreso if you wore that other dress ;D(she was going to wear another dress, the other dress fitted her body better, but she wore another dress, we made fat jokes and she said that I wanted her to wear the other dress because it made her boobs look bigger, I said that I didn't notice but whatever)". She replies with "haha sweet next time ;)"

I text her the next day saying we should have a dvd marathon soon, she agrees.

Fin.
Author:  Turn Up the Night [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 4:19 pm ]
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I can't offer much practical advice but if I were you I'd just go for it myself. It sounds like you have something quite special here imo. Just keep it fun really is all I can say.

Its obvious you like her at least and she seems kind of receptive so I honestly think there is something there.

Hope it all works out. :wink:
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