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| Author: | wanabepua [ Mon Aug 13, 2007 8:37 pm ] |
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Hi every one I am looking for help, girls that I know call me a nice guy, I guess bez I pay for their drinks food ect ect when ever I go out with any One of them be it a coworker or just a friend,I just feel obligated to do so as a man, I think like that because of my culture and family up bringing. I am at a point where I have stop asking girls out even a co-worker bez now they accept me to pay and i dont know how to turn table around without looking like a jerk, I can make a excuse and say i forget my wallet but that will only work 1 time, I understand if I am asking a girl out first time I have to pay but after that how about second date or third or movie tickets, how do i get the girl to take out her money for atlest her part,without me asking. I am tired of being a nice guy or a geltlelmen, I want some one to take me under his wing and change me please.[/b] |
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| Author: | VEE [ Mon Aug 13, 2007 9:57 pm ] |
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jes fukin step up nigga..say no..A fukin man puts his foot down and sets the rules that everyone lives by. If your still insecure bout this make a demand as soon as they make you one. EX. buy me a drink! You: Sure, but buy me one first You: Alright, how about you buy me one you think ill like and ill buy you one I think youll like You: Umm No... |
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| Author: | wanabepua [ Mon Aug 13, 2007 11:15 pm ] |
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THXS bro thats a good idea, how about when it comes to food like on lunch time when u stand in a line for fastfood like panda express and your date is behind you in line(mostly on purpose) fully expecting you to pay, wht can i say or do to be able to get her to pay. I know I sound like your AFC that because I am, but i here to change that, all i need is some 1 to show me some ropes. |
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| Author: | xLINKx [ Tue Aug 14, 2007 1:27 am ] |
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Quote: THXS bro
Order your own food separate, pay for yours.thats a good idea, how about when it comes to food like on lunch time when u stand in a line for fastfood like panda express and your date is behind you in line(mostly on purpose) fully expecting you to pay, wht can i say or do to be able to get her to pay. I know I sound like your AFC that because I am, but i here to change that, all i need is some 1 to show me some ropes. If she says something, tell her she's being a bitch for expecting you to pay for her, she has a job, she can pay for her own. |
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| Author: | EvoJ [ Tue Aug 14, 2007 1:58 pm ] |
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Personally I like the following. It makes them feel like they are in the stoneage. "I'll be happy to pay for your meal if you agree that you will stay home barefoot and pregnant." OR "I am a firm believer in equal rights. I'll happily buy your's this time if you buy mine next time." I actually stopped and made a woman open the door for me yesterday. It was Awesome! lmao.. she just stopped at the door and looked at me. I stared at her like "wtf open the door woman" and she smiled, opened the door, and held it open as I passed through. Now being honest, there was a second door and I opened this one for her. Then there was a bunch of laughter and smiles and all was good again. |
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| Author: | negsta [ Tue Aug 14, 2007 2:12 pm ] |
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This could be a tiny inner game problem. You seem to have been treating girls like this all your life, as though they were on a pedestal. Remember, you're the prize. |
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| Author: | Methuselah [ Tue Aug 14, 2007 2:30 pm ] |
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Of all the problems that life will throw at you in your roughly 26,000 days on this earth, this is a fucking stupid one to be stuck on. Realize that, then move on. |
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| Author: | valencia [ Wed Aug 15, 2007 2:37 am ] |
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it sounds kinda cocky, but i always use feminism and sexism against women. try saying that you think the man always having to pay is chauvinistic, and that women tend to throw out the sexism card when it suits them. ive found this works quite well as a neg, as itll get them being defensive and then the balls in your court |
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