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Author:  Curious [ Tue Sep 15, 2009 1:45 am ]
Post subject:  Pre-selection Question (a good one in my opinion)

How do you demonstrate pre-selection if you don't really have a girlfriend, you never had a girlfriend, or you don't have any friends that are girls?

If you say you do and she finds out that you really don't, she loses attraction. If you show a lipstick kiss on your neck or cheek, but it isn't really from a girl, you have to make up a story, and eventually the girl you are gaming will ask you or wonder why this girl that has pre-selected you, is never around.

How do you demonstrate pre-selection properly?

Author:  KristallNachte [ Tue Sep 15, 2009 2:34 am ]
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be around girls...

she just has to see you talking to other girls without said girls wanting to leave.

Author:  Visionxxxxxx [ Tue Sep 15, 2009 12:06 pm ]
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Lots of 'cool' guys you know around you having alot of fun together = social proof. eg. knowing the bar tenders,bouncers,club owners or just f*ckin cool guys that stand out.

Lots of cool guys AND girls around you = social proof AND pre-selection.

go for the latter...its good having girls around you but you dont want to look like a loner.

Author:  Curious [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 6:15 am ]
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So pre-selection doesn't necessarily mean that you have to have a girlfriend? It means that it has to appear as if a girl is attracted to you? So, being around girls would flip this attraction switch?

Author:  "DHV" [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 4:19 pm ]
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don't just make it seem like girls are attracted to you make the girls be attracted to u

Author:  KristallNachte [ Fri Sep 18, 2009 10:28 pm ]
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So pre-selection doesn't necessarily mean that you have to have a girlfriend? It means that it has to appear as if a girl is attracted to you? So, being around girls would flip this attraction switch?
pre-selection is a thing girls do to reduce wasted time in looking for mates. If she sees a guy with no pre-selections in place, she'd have to invest time to discover if you're worth getting to know.

if you're seen to be around other girls, in her head she's like "these girls have already put some time in, and are sticking around, this means with him there is a safer choice than the loner.

Author:  Lodewijkp [ Sat Sep 19, 2009 5:19 pm ]
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just be sure you are familiar at her female friends and your in... pre selection extra value is added when It's in her social group

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