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Author:  systematic [ Sat Sep 12, 2009 8:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Tips on closing russian babe...HELP
Howzt guys
There is this russian girl i'm really feeling. The one night we happened to be in the same club and i walked right past her(I really didn notice here). We've met once or twice throu a mutual friend of ours. At the club she asked me y don't i chill with them. I ended up spending my entire night with here.... I was getting ioi's like crazy(she even called me good lookin and complained y der aren't more guys like me in the club). Near the end of the night when we got to the bus stop, i thought i lost my house keys. She sugggested i should come crash at her place, i rejected her offer and found my keys. I think i got atleast 4 ioi's from her that night but i couldn isolate her and i couldn k-close her infront of her mates otherwise she would've bombed me. The next day i hear a knock on my door and as i open the door, guess who i see...the russian babe. I ended up walking her home and she invited me in again but i said NO again in order to push and pull. I haven spoken to her in2 weeks now, but she is my date to some formal dinner. Any tips how i can finally K-close this doll. She is a mega babe and all the bastards around m will be super pissed which i want :)
Author:  nermob [ Sun Sep 13, 2009 5:38 am ]
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i think we're missing part of the story details, but all i see is you pushing, pushing, pushing, and no pulling (?). You've had various opportunities to K-close and not taking them was probably not good.

Inability to pull the trigger, is seen as a weakness and its dangerous ground that could lead to loss of interest REAL fast, so there must be other really solid aspects to your game that keeps her coming back. Fix this and you'll be unstoppable! :) Now on to a real example...

Mind you, I'm still quite new at this so i still make many mistakes, but anyway, the girl (HB7) was in our circle of friends. One of the first girls I ran "game" on, by the way. I had met her a few times, always tons of IOIs....

Long story short, I CF'd well, isolated well and built rapport well but missed a couple of good Kiss close opportunities. Anyway on the day-2 I finally k-closed and later that night laid her and although she put on a strong feminine exterior at first, when she was writhing naked underneath me in the shadow of the blankets she was putty in my hands, gentle, sweet, and tender. A delicious lay... but the part that helped me grow in my game was a convo I had with her later the next day when hanging with a group...

I said as a joke, "I don't remember much from last night. I hope you didnt take advantage of me" and gave her a sly wink followed by a little kino. She smiled in a way that I knew memories of last night's bliss flashed through her pretty blonde head. She said, "well you did have to get a couple of drinks in you before you could kiss me" AND BANG IT HIT ME! I should have k-closed earlier!!! I thought back to several opportunities when I was just afraid, and that fear blinded me to the realization that she was ready....To this day, I'm 99% sure I could have F-closed on NIGHT #1 if i had just PULLED THE TRIGGER. DO IT! DO IT! DO IT!

Say to yourself, "when I get X number of IOIs within Y number of minutes, I'm gonna kiss her no matter what." Then count the IOIs and when you hit your target, BANG! Success is almost guaranteed. Once you do it a few times, you'll lose the fear and always be able to just PULL THAT TRIGGER!

Well if you made it to the end of this post, hope it helped. Moral: Ignore Fear of rejection and just pull the trigger.
Author:  expat_of_love [ Sun Sep 13, 2009 9:49 am ]
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She isn't "Russian". Russians don't live in the West. She is an immigrant. Might be a prostitute or stripper. Almost IMPOSSIBLE for Russians to leave these days because of Visa issues.
Author:  diecz [ Sun Sep 13, 2009 11:14 am ]
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ohh man it sounds like she gave you lots of iois and you didnt take advantage of it. Its going to be hard to come back from this because she probably thinks your not interested. One approach would be to strike a convo with her again and then when there is some silence just say something like "Hey I might take up that offer to come to see your place.. Is it going to be worthwhile" If she says yeah... then go for it... If she say no then say " I knew you werent interesting" with a sly smile and try again later.....Good luck.
Author:  mR.e [ Sun Sep 13, 2009 10:33 pm ]
Post subject:  yea
nermob is deff right

you had many chances and trust me girls as much as they sometimes dont give you IOIs, they like the excitement of a kiss. let alone when she gives u IOIs you need to do it because it is an obvious sign. when that happeneds push kino and nothing will go wrong, whats the worst that can happen?? if anything and she really doesnt want to for some reason just say "haha you are weird i wasnt gonna kiss you i wanted a hug!" or just something to switch it up. example of how K close is nothing..


so i meet this girl that sits next to me in class, she is new, and cute of course so i talk to her. we go to lunch the first day she is here because she doesnt no anyone and stuff and i happen to get bailed on. we talk, have a good lunch, the most kino i put on her is a hug and a smile
a week later she wants to hang out.. we go out for a while and it wasnt a real fun night to do stuff so we just chill. i say "hey i am the cuddle king lets cuddle while we wait for my buddy to get back to me" we are in her car. i push kino, and only with one IOI i go for a kiss. not only did she love it, after about 5 min she took off her pants.. you can imagine wut happened from there m8s ;)

point of the story, i kiss wont kill you, it will lead to getting you laid!

mR.e
Author:  pushkidman [ Mon Sep 14, 2009 10:31 am ]
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Quote:
She isn't "Russian". Russians don't live in the West. She is an immigrant. Might be a prostitute or stripper. Almost IMPOSSIBLE for Russians to leave these days because of Visa issues.
Sorry for offtop guys...
But I just can't stand nationalist suckers like you! Shut up!
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