I'm just curious to get a few opinions on how I handled this situation earlier today, The girl in question is a hb7-8 and I acted like a bit of an AFC but only after building up a huge attraction base where she was txting me 20 times a day, IoI's all the time then She went on holiday and since then we haven't met up or anything, barely txt and complete opposite of before she went away. anyway I was bored so txt her tonight ......
me: what ya upto tonight dude?? fancy a drink?
her: Dude?? lol i'm really sorry matey I have just made plans!!x
me: ok then, speak soon
her: Oooh that was a brush off and a half!!
me: Explain that comment? Would you have preferred me to be honest and say cancel your plans as you now have a better offer?
her: No but at least u wouldn't have been truthful and not sounding like u hate me!!!
me: Well cancel your plans then. do them 2moro. You have a better offer ;P
her: This plan won't wait! sorry
me: ok then, speak soon
any opinions on it would be greatly appreciated, thats how the texts were word for word so you can take them as you interpret them and let me know if I could have dealt with this better or I did ok with it.
cheers