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| Author: | neogamer [ Fri Aug 10, 2007 3:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Ditched between dates--my reply--suggestions? |
Moved from Yahoo personal ad to date in 2 days. For a neogamer, date went well. Numerous IOIs. No way to kino in a conservative restaurant, and, seemed premature to advance to her place or mine on a Wednesday night. Juices seemed to be flowing as we set date #2 for Friday. I was going to kino and try to close during after the movie. Today, Thursday, she emails me that a guy she's dating became upset that she was going out with me, and demanded she commit to him. I'm history. Who knows, could be bullshit. She does this by email. I email back, asking for the club name that the other single nurses go to after work--because she wouldn't tell me last night when I asked--which I took as an IOI--to my neg. |
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| Author: | Swing [ Fri Aug 10, 2007 4:55 am ] |
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No suggestions, just another example of why you try to close as soon as possible b/c you can't control things that may happen while you're not around. Try to have multiple venue changes always. (I always used to have at least 2-3) That way even if you don't close she'll feel like she spent more time with you and helps you build a stronger connection, so she'll be less willing to let things stop her from seeing you again. |
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| Author: | Impact [ Fri Aug 10, 2007 10:58 am ] |
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If she says you are history that just means you had no value at all. Teach her something next time! And the fact that she said some guy she dated Demanded this and that, means you havent shown enough protection strength value to her either! And you end by saying 'twas a pleasure meeting you' not 'where are the single nurses' lol 
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| Author: | neogamer [ Fri Aug 10, 2007 4:47 pm ] |
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Quote: If she says you are history that just means you had no value at all. Teach her something next time! And the fact that she said some guy she dated Demanded this and that, means you havent shown enough protection strength value to her either! And you end by saying 'twas a pleasure meeting you' not 'where are the single nurses' lol
I did some teaching. We talked about skiing which she can't do, and we talked European travel which I've done and she hasn't. Clearly my value ended up low, the result speaks for itself. Her last relationship was with a selfish rich surgeon, and she did everything to make it work. Looking back, she wants money more than sex or fun. I offered the latter, although I have a good job. What I could have done better was increase my scarcity, in the few days this encounter lasted, I was too available.
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| Author: | Impact [ Sat Aug 11, 2007 2:49 am ] |
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Yeah but you didnt teach her anything about herself! |
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| Author: | neogamer [ Sun Aug 12, 2007 12:46 pm ] |
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You're right. Looking back, I failed to demonstrate social proof (way too honest about where I was post-divorce), and DLV'd myself a few times. At least with a forum like this and books I can begin to understand why I didn't get what I wanted, and learn from it. |
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| Author: | neogamer [ Mon Oct 15, 2007 2:39 am ] |
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With the benefit of more time, I glad she blew me off. My game is advancing and she wouldn't make the cut even a month later. She was boring! |
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| Author: | Ubium [ Mon Oct 15, 2007 4:25 am ] |
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So basically you didnt DHV thorughout your encounter? Like no storytelling or other type of DHV. I wouldnt want to make the same mistake. |
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