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Author:  Kipskip [ Mon Aug 31, 2009 10:47 pm ]
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Hey, whats up? I am fairly new to this community. As a sophomore at the University of Arizona, I can already see the tremendous opportunities within this campus to begin my sarging efforts. That being said, I have a question:

Where do I begin? There are so many places to impliment these techniques. Parties on weekends (or weeks) seems the most logical, but classes have a TON of HBs as well. My personal feeling is that I should do it at parties, as I actually do try to focus on the course material during the day and not all the hotties surrounding me (although they are definitely a distraction). Basically, I want to know in which environment it would be best to practice these things if you are relatively new at pick-up.

Any thoughts?
Author:  Dangerboy [ Mon Aug 31, 2009 11:18 pm ]
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Parties are probably easier to start off with than campus game, but you should still put yourself in position everywhere you go to do something when the opportunity arises. The quickest way to getting good is to always be practicing and fixing where you're getting stuck.
That said, welcome and good luck man!
Author:  xiagox [ Tue Sep 01, 2009 5:43 pm ]
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One thing that has been bothering me, how do you know where the parties are?
I'm currently trying to develop a stronger social circle, so I'm not being invited to any. I'll throw my own once I know enough girls to get a good ratio going.
Author:  KristallNachte [ Tue Sep 01, 2009 7:38 pm ]
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you can try clubs if you don't get invited to parties.
Author:  Pan@che [ Tue Sep 01, 2009 10:36 pm ]
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You need to make this lifestyle part of you. It's not enough to just go to a club or a party and switch on 'Game Mode' as it will come across as fake. Like in Style's LAS VEGAS model (try youtube) the A is for Authenticity. The person you're presenting has to be the real you.

If you're in a situation where you can talk to people (guys, girls or old age pensioners) just talk and meet whoever you can to develop your social skills. If no one's around, work on your body language, posture, style and inner game. Pick-Up isn't about turning up, doing a load of routines and getting the girl. It's about becoming the kind of guy that naturally attracts girls and that means working at it in one form or another almost constantly.

Xiagox, you shouldn't necessarily need a social circle although having one will certainly help. A faithful wing is a great asset so if you can introduce your best friend and train him up, great! Worst case scenario, if you have no one to go out with and nowhere to go, join clubs. I, for example, do Tae Kwon-Do twice a week and circuit training on a Wednesday. This combined with my work colleagues and my quite large social circle gives me choices as to who to socialise with and when.
Author:  Foxtrot 5 [ Wed Sep 02, 2009 2:05 am ]
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1st step I'd say is to totally get rid of approach anxiety. You should go to a nearby mall (or fuck it, if you already on campus) say hi to every single person you pass. This year at school, I'm a freshman, I just say hey to a group of girls with a smile and they respond just fine.

Slowly think of an opener you would have used in that situation and when the time comes just test it out. In college everyone is fun and friendly. If she rejects you then shes a total bitch. But remember, keep at it. Think of each "hey" or any other opener as just practice.
Author:  Foxtrot 5 [ Wed Sep 02, 2009 2:07 am ]
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Oh, and think of hotties and normal girls are the same...because they are. We just create the fear that they are different because we value them more...and their hot ass bodies.
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