I think it's a normal feeling I've had that a lot. Especially when they've given me hints like smiling or constantly looking. It might be a "newbie thing" though.
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| Author: | henning [ Fri Aug 21, 2009 6:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | do you look back on appraoches you never took? |
regarding AA Do you ever look back on an occasion and thought "wow, I could have at least said hi, or done something different!" If i could do it again, I would have stopped her and talked" Is this a normal feeling? |
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| Author: | Jav [ Fri Aug 21, 2009 6:28 pm ] |
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go fucking do it. |
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| Author: | Backpack [ Sat Aug 22, 2009 2:22 am ] |
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I think it's a normal feeling I've had that a lot. Especially when they've given me hints like smiling or constantly looking. It might be a "newbie thing" though.
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| Author: | BombshellBrunette [ Sat Aug 22, 2009 2:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | regret |
yeahh when i was younger i do regret about not making a move. all those "what would have happened if i did". then as i got older, i got better in my game and finally made the moves to get ahead 
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| Author: | Kalel [ Sat Aug 22, 2009 7:11 am ] |
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It's normal, and no matter what anybody says, everybody does this from time to time. Hindsight is 20/20, and even though experience weeds out basic mistakes, everybody makes mistakes or miscalculations to some degree, and it's natural to correct them in our minds later. That being said, its important not to let this phenomenon poison your mind. It's natural to think back, but its' not natural to obsess about the past. We should learn from our mistakes, but we should not burden ourselves with them to the point we can't move forward. If we focus too much on what we did wrong, we will miss all the things we did right, and that we should do again. The important part is to keep everything in perspective. And even when remembering negative things, to remember them with a positive attitude for the future. |
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| Author: | Impact [ Sat Aug 22, 2009 7:34 am ] |
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look back figure out what you could do then move forward. Thats it |
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| Author: | cheiftain [ Sat Aug 22, 2009 9:29 am ] |
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ya happened to me two days ago I just wont make the same mistake twice. those moments can be great if you let them and learn from them |
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| Author: | Enigma104 [ Sat Aug 22, 2009 10:03 pm ] |
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I try not to, live live in the present, looking back just wastes more time. |
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| Author: | xibuz [ Sun Aug 23, 2009 7:43 am ] |
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Hell fuck no. I only remember the ones I do approach. What I do look back on and use for fuel is the feeling of uselessness I have when I was somewhere I coulda easily approached 30 people nut didn't any. Immediately after a miss I'll be like dayumn I coulda at least said wha'sup, and what happens a lot of times is a possible spontaneous opener comes to me after already passing them 10 seconds too late. A wave, a grunt or eye contact is progress over not approaching at all... |
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