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Author:  Detimilnu [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 3:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Just here to complain a little bit
Having a weak season... even 2.
Like maybe 7 dry months.

And before that I was way better than this! I mean, I had charecter, I would know exacly what and when to say it.
And now, everytime I call a girl I start mumbling and saying dumb stuff, and when I meet girls and start conversations, they end up wit me being confused, don't know what to do, how to reach.

It's so wierd! Like I'm suddenly afraid of girls, can't point on the problem.
I can speak with her for hours, go around places, drink up, but when it comes to the real stuff, even just touching [kino etc.] I'm all blocked up!

I have never been so much into this all "Game".. you know, silly routeines.. Never went out on sessions. Going to places just to find chicks always seemed wierd and, well kinda scary.
But I love the community, you guys always have great stuff to say.

Let me tell you about my latest call:
There is this CUTE, really awesome 8, that I know for 6 months or so.
Not on friend zone or anything, meeting her once in a long time, tried to kiss her once and she said something about having somebody and being sorry etc.
Anywho today there's a cool beer-festival that I knew she will probably attend, so I called her to ask if I can join her and her friends.
I had these cool lines that sound really awesome, clever, funny, I really wanted to say them.
Then her sister answered and I said a cool "HI!" and she said "wait" and gave her the phone. Then when she said "hiiii" [a cute long hi] I said a wierd not-cool "hello", it was downhill from there.
I said "hmmmmmmmm [bad]... how are you chubby" [in my language, Hebrew it sounds cute, yet kinda oldschool] she was like "alright how are you honey?" and I said "all good, hmmmmm [bad] what are you doing today? going to the beer fest?" and she said "Yeah! wanna join?" and I mumbled "hmmm.. sure, wh..when are you guyz going? and how?" [I'm used to be spontanious]. she was like "I dunno" "So call me when you do?" "yeah sure" then I mumbled some more dumb stuff and we hung up.
It was like I got scared of her voice!
I feel so angry and dumb :P

Well, that was my little complaint of the day, hope it'll be fun in the beer fest.
Lots of cute girls in there heh.. maybe I'll get better luck there.

Peace.
Author:  TheJ [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 3:50 pm ]
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This is just a suggestion. But how about just putting the "game" on the side for a while? Don't open up the forums for 2 weeks. Don't read anything PUA related either. Just go out there to enjoy yourself and maybe you'll find out that 'old confident self' again.
Author:  DDrake82 [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 3:55 pm ]
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I use to call these episodes dry spells. My game isn't on tight and my words are coming out all wrong. I realized that my dry spells where more like warning signs. Something was either bugging me or worrying me. It can be a damn slow down in the dating game. But your confidence is under a bit of attack from some where.

Take a step back, regroup and get your head straight. Somethings up, you just don't know what it is yet.

As for the chick, her sis either wants you or they are playing around for their own benefit. Keep in mind hooking up with one of them but don't make it a commitment for the beer festival. Go over there open to hook up, see if they are their to get into you a little more and if not get something else and move on.

D.
Author:  Detimilnu [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 4:03 pm ]
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Quote:
This is just a suggestion. But how about just putting the "game" on the side for a while? Don't open up the forums for 2 weeks. Don't read anything PUA related either. Just go out there to enjoy yourself and maybe you'll find out that 'old confident self' again.
I wasn't here for a long long time.. like I said, I'm not into the game, I just like the stuff ppl have to say when I ask for suggestions.

D, thanks a lot man, I also think there is something that's bothering me lately .
And her sister is waaaay older then me heh... just answered the phone for her ^^"
Great thought though.
Author:  DDrake82 [ Thu Aug 20, 2009 5:06 pm ]
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Good man,

If you can either fix the problem or understand that worrying about it will not do anything to solve it. All its going to do is ruin your day.

Good luck and keep us posted.

D
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