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Author:  cashier [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 5:20 pm ]
Post subject:  HELP! girl asked me about my past relationships!
i have never had a girlfriend!! what do i tell her!?!?

i need answers asap cause iam texting her
Author:  cashier [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 5:39 pm ]
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i said "not that good i guess since iam not in one now"


did i fuck that up? i feel like i did

then she says have you had a lot

i said "nah not really" <---not a lie! lol
Author:  BadolzoN [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 5:49 pm ]
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How old are you?

What is the age of the girl?

What type of girl is she?

If she's some slutty bitch with blonde extensions and tall beautiful then you'll want to tell her "Yeah I've been in good relationships before many very sexual etc"

You have to calibrate to what type of girl she is.

If she's more reserved then say "I've been in a few, but they were all healthy long relationships"

You never want to come off as the bad guy or bag on your ex.

Calibrate Calibrate Calibrate.

But ALWAYS remember to appear as if you're preselected.

Btw I LOVE your name lmao and your ava. xDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
Author:  cashier [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 6:07 pm ]
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iam 21 (sad i know) and shes 19.

shes a HB6. shes a good girl.
shes smart, and funny.

she hasn't had many relationships in the past.
and she isn't the type of person to just jump into a relationship.
she has trust issues, and is afraid of being hurt (so she says).
She has already told me that she likes me alot.


ooo and another question.
she has told me that she likes me alot. but wants me to wait for her ( idonno for what) but she says she doesnt want to jump into a relationship.
is it weird that she wants me to wait?
Author:  BadolzoN [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 6:35 pm ]
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iam 21 (sad i know) and shes 19.

shes a HB6. shes a good girl.
shes smart, and funny.

she hasn't had many relationships in the past.
and she isn't the type of person to just jump into a relationship.
she has trust issues, and is afraid of being hurt (so she says).
She has already told me that she likes me alot.


ooo and another question.
she has told me that she likes me alot. but wants me to wait for her ( idonno for what) but she says she doesnt want to jump into a relationship.
is it weird that she wants me to wait?
The reason might be because she's with some other guy (Yes, it's happened to me "Can you wait a bit?" aka "I want to see who's better you or him")

OR she has her bitch shield up.

She likes you, but like you said, she has a hard time trusting people because she's been dating assholes lately. :shock:

Try to escalate the kino and calibrate how she responds.

Never jump through her hoops unless she's jumped through yours first.

Seems like you're in A3 at the moment, time to tell her how you feel about her, give her a chance to DHV you with stories of her own.

I'd highly suggest you watch Mystery's videos. :O!?!?!?!
Author:  cashier [ Sun Aug 16, 2009 6:44 pm ]
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The reason might be because she's with some other guy (Yes, it's happened to me "Can you wait a bit?" aka "I want to see who's better you or him")

OR she has her bitch shield up.

She likes you, but like you said, she has a hard time trusting people because she's been dating assholes lately. :shock:

Try to escalate the kino and calibrate how she responds.

Never jump through her hoops unless she's jumped through yours first.

Seems like you're in A3 at the moment, time to tell her how you feel about her, give her a chance to DHV you with stories of her own.

I'd highly suggest you watch Mystery's videos. :O!?!?!?!
she does have a boyfriend. i know this.
and yes her last two boyfriends cheated on her.
kino is kinda hard at the moment because shes on vacation (w/ her boyfriend and family) in another state. shes been talking to me all day while shes there tho.

i already told her i liked her, but only after she told me first.

and she is always DHV
Author:  BadolzoN [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 3:23 am ]
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The reason might be because she's with some other guy (Yes, it's happened to me "Can you wait a bit?" aka "I want to see who's better you or him")

OR she has her bitch shield up.

She likes you, but like you said, she has a hard time trusting people because she's been dating assholes lately. :shock:

Try to escalate the kino and calibrate how she responds.

Never jump through her hoops unless she's jumped through yours first.

Seems like you're in A3 at the moment, time to tell her how you feel about her, give her a chance to DHV you with stories of her own.

I'd highly suggest you watch Mystery's videos. :O!?!?!?!
she does have a boyfriend. i know this.
and yes her last two boyfriends cheated on her.
kino is kinda hard at the moment because shes on vacation (w/ her boyfriend and family) in another state. shes been talking to me all day while shes there tho.

i already told her i liked her, but only after she told me first.

and she is always DHV
Ugh...

She's playing you bro...

Why would she be with her boyfriend on vacation?

If she really liked you she would straight dump him.

Ugh this has happened to me 1000000000 times she's PLAYING you.

Yada yada "I like you yeah I loooove talking to you you're cute etc etc" but she's still with her boyfriend.

Shit dude I don't know what to tell you honestly.

I like you too damn it.

Hope you get her though which will be hard as hell.
Author:  KristallNachte [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 4:03 am ]
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shes a HB6
why are you talking to her?
Author:  Tnvir [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 7:43 am ]
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Quote:
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shes a HB6
why are you talking to her?
Amen to that!
Author:  jakslip [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 10:33 am ]
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maybe he has very critical ratings ;-)

@topic
As posted above, youre being played, shes obviously not that great as you described. Dont let her become your one itis.
Author:  Overture [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 1:48 pm ]
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shes a HB6
why are you talking to her?
Isnt it obvious? He is desperate.

Cashier, you cant let one girl have such tremendous effects on you. I suggest you go read some material.
Author:  tweeby [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 6:22 pm ]
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Amen to all above this.

Cashier, I know you don't wanna hear this but unfortunately it's plain as day TRUE.

SHE probably did like you but her OTHER man just stepped up to the mantle, with a little more conviction than you did. This will hurt, I know, I've been there myself.
But girls and guys BOTH do the same thing (see two/more people at once). It's like trying on a few jackets before you pick one to buy, that's all she was doing and you can't really pass blame on her.


And just my $2 the number of guys who mis-read a seemingly sweet girl and somehow think they need to behave more placatory to get them is insane. At the end of the day, EVERY girl, sweet or bitchy wants a cocky, confident ( read as 'a guy who knows she wants to have sex and creates the opportunity for it aggressively' ) guy.

It's better you heard it from us than to live a lie and become deluded.

Your choices are, to keep contact with her and use her as pivot material. Perhaps use her to work on your inner game - might even be worth it seeing as you've had no gfs. The question is whether you are mentally strong enough to do it.

But most importantly, consider this one as dead and actively seek OTHER opportunities. If you wanna flip this one around you have to become another person. An alpha male, I get what I want.
Author:  KristallNachte [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 7:28 pm ]
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actively seek OTHER opportunities.
always do this

even when in a committed relationship.
Author:  DonPua [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 9:36 pm ]
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I don't get why you didn't lie to her about your past relationships. If you say to a girl you never had a girlfriend then in 95 % of the cases she will not feel attracted to you anymore. Girls want what other girls have/want. If you never had a girlfriend that means nobody has ever wanted you so why would she settle for a loser ? I am not saying you are a loser. You probably have confidence issues which are the reason for you never to have had a girlfriend and if you solve them you will for 100 % date a lot of women. But this is her mindset and the way she thinks about you now.

If a girl tells you to wait for you, you don't wait for her. If you tell her: "OK, I will wait for you untill you dump your boyfriend" ... man that is one of the biggest DLV possible. There doesn't exist anyone less attractive than the man waiting for a girl to dump her boyfriend. If she dumps him, she will probably stay with you untill she finds someone else and dump you. This will make you feel very bad because you will understand that she just used you. Don't be scared to lose her. Be a real man. You shouldn't be the one begging for her, she should be the one begging for you. I would tell her something like : " You know, I am gonna be honest to you. I really liked you but I don't feel like waiting. That's why I started seeing other girls. But we can still be best friends. ". Don't be scared to tell her this. Don't be afraid to lose the girl. If you are afraid to lose the girl, you will almost always lose the girl. And this shouldn't be a lie. You seriously should meet other girls. You will notice that not only you will meet better girls than her but she will probably crawl back to you because you showed her that you have options and are not needy. That is a very attractive way to be.
Author:  BadolzoN [ Tue Aug 18, 2009 3:58 am ]
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actively seek OTHER opportunities.
always do this

even when in a committed relationship.
Very very true.

You're like me lol.

Even when I'm with a girl I genuinely like I still flirt with other chicks ALL the time.
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