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| Author: | SkIzZy [ Tue Aug 07, 2007 5:39 pm ] |
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What are you'r thought's and advice on going out to pick-up girl's on you'r own. I have always thought it be better to be with a group or at least with a friend but what if you have no choice.? Any tips on what I can do. |
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| Author: | xfman [ Tue Aug 07, 2007 5:57 pm ] |
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| Author: | Israel [ Tue Aug 07, 2007 5:59 pm ] |
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It's alway easier to be with friends because it makes you less creepy and makes false time constraints easier. If you're alone though, you can definitely still sarge you just need two things: 1.) There has to be a reason for you being wherever you are (usually it would be that you're out with friends). - If you're in a mall: You're buying new shoes. - If you're outside: You're looking for a place to do your laundry. - If you're in a club: "My friends are all out of town so I decided I need to meet some new people." - With that last one, it's important that you open many sets so that you never seem like a loner and that way within a couple minutes you actually do have friends you can get back to. 2.) You need to make up some situational time constraints. |
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| Author: | SouthernCross [ Tue Aug 07, 2007 7:09 pm ] |
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You might as well go out alone. I used to think it would be weird But then i realized all the Sets of girls I gamed I was always alone in the process I didn't have a wingman that knew the game. I had a 2 set case where I had to pull my friends weight because he didnt have any game and just sat there watching. I did all the things to try to include my friend in the discussion but it was hard work. He didnt raise my value any if anything he bored the girl he was with which made her my obstacle too. So its a fear you'll get over once you realize you've been alone in this Game from the start Plus as a bonus you can move feely you won't feel compelled to have to be around your friends(With no Game) all night. |
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| Author: | rawker [ Thu Aug 09, 2007 3:39 am ] |
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Let me take a step back from this and look at it from the outside. Your friends can either help you or hinder your success with women.. Just because you have a group of people around you does not mean that your getting positive social proof.. It depends on who you are out with.. It doesn’t mean that you have to have a group of Brad Pitt lookalikes but they have to party like the are... It just means that you need to have fun with the people that you hang with.. The more visible your having fun is, the more attention that you get. People want to know why you’re having so much fun and naturally want to be somehow associated with it. So can you create that effect on your own....yeah.. I’ve definitely had some of my best Sarges alone, it forces you to be in set all night.. But you have to start opening sets the second you walk through the door...In my opinion even if your running a set and its going really good you need to excuse yourself for few mins and go open up more sets...Then come back.. You want to open 3 or 4 and leave them on the cusp of A-3 or in A-3...This way when you are finally in the best set with the best target, you have people walking past you saying hey, and girls coming by and grabbing your ass or waving to you etc...You look like you know the whole place.. In effect you dont have to know anybody you just have to look like you do.. If a girl asks you who you are with either say c'mon lets go find them hold her hand and walk around for a min (great time to test kino) Then just say oh well i cant find them guess your going to have to take good care of me..(Mystery) Or use David D’s cocky funny routine that goes like this : She asks "Who are you here with?" You answer "I'm here with you" <sly smile>. Seeeee? She smiles, laughs a little, and says "OK, seriously... who are you here with?" You answer "Look, I only know you a few minutes and already you're trying to meet my friends? By the end of the week you're going to be over at my mom's house talking about our wedding. Slow down!".. Its a lot but i hope it helps Rawker |
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