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Author:  TheDandy [ Tue Aug 11, 2009 10:17 am ]
Post subject:  This girl is...welll...physically abusive.
The other night it was my buddies birthday so me and a group took him out to a 90's themed venue downtown. While I was there I met up with a few other friends and through them I met this HB8ish named Katie. She seemed pretty cool and I managed to escalate a lot of kino by dancing with her to "passin me by" by the Pharcyde (Btw, one of the greatest 90's rap songs of all time). After that, I performed a couple cigarette magic tricks for her outside and introduced a few of her friends to my friends.

After a while she started getting a bit punchy. At first it was a cutesy punch in the arm so I neged her in front of her dude friend. Something along the lines of "Damn she is feisty, is she always like this?" Then that turned into a punch in the stomach. I mean I could take it but it was getting rather frustrating at this point. I ran out of negs...I RAN OUT OF NEGS!

Then I got kinda stern like you would with a child "Will you stop that!?". So I took her sunglasses away from her. I told her I had a pairs just like them and that I had a tendency to lose them then I walked away and grabbed a couple of the female friends that I came with and used them to draw attention to me by positioning them in front of me at the bar...But that's not important.

I found Katie again and she put on this sad pouty face saying that she thought I was gonna lose her sunglasses again. So I put my hand on her side and got kinda close to her and took the sunglasses that were hanging off the back of my shirt and put them on her face. I took her by the hand to some seating along the bar where I tried to use Neil Strauss' digital camera routine. First we took a happy face pic...or at least it was just me making a happy face. Then I said to make a serious face and she made a funny face. Then I kissed her on the cheek. Next thing you know we were making out. I got a hickey. She does too.

But then she started getting rough again. Like, making a fist putting it against my cheek really firmly and pushing my face into the vinyl cushioning behind us. I just thought this was her way of playing but the texts I'm getting are starting to...i just took a really deep breath right now...make me frustrated?

For instance:
Me: Hey I had a fun time with you tonight. We should hang out again if you promise not to hit me. :P
Her: Ha! I'm sure you like it rough. And yes, we will. You better go out with us thursday.
Me: blah blah blah I said something witty
Her: something something jerk face
me: something lol something witty
Her: something something .22 caliber pistol (it just kept on going)

Anyways the last thing she said was something along the lines of more punching. At one point she even called me fatty. I'm pretty damn lean. I don't want to talk about it. I feel feminized. Its like that episode of friends where Joey kept getting punched by this tiny girl he was dating. Honestly I thought it was an initial shit test. She's just being kinda mean. It's suposed to be ME negging!! ME! Not HER!!

What the hell is going on?
Author:  xibuz [ Tue Aug 11, 2009 10:34 am ]
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It looks like you found someone you thought you were attracted to at first, but then you find out shes no fun, not your style, a crazy bitch...

This happens all the time.

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Author:  TheJ [ Tue Aug 11, 2009 3:18 pm ]
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It looks like you found someone you thought you were attracted to at first, but then you find out shes no fun, not your style, a crazy bitch...

This happens all the time.
Wow, you do know how to make your point come across do you ;)

That being said, I remember reading somewhere that girls that show a certain type of personality are often quite the opposite personality down inside. I might give it a last shot, calling her out on her soft side. i.e. "Come on now, you act all tough, but I can see through you. I can see you are a caring girl inside. Maybe you have been hurt in the past when showing your sweet side to guys, but you don't have to worry about that with me. Just be yourself ". Then be prepared for a total change of personality ... or to run away while she tries to club you to death :wink:
Author:  DonPua [ Tue Aug 11, 2009 8:15 pm ]
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Send her to a psychiatric clinic. The girl is nuts. Go pickup a normal girl.
Author:  TheDandy [ Wed Aug 12, 2009 7:02 am ]
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It looks like you found someone you thought you were attracted to at first, but then you find out shes no fun, not your style, a crazy bitch...

This happens all the time.
Wow, you do know how to make your point come across do you ;)

That being said, I remember reading somewhere that girls that show a certain type of personality are often quite the opposite personality down inside. I might give it a last shot, calling her out on her soft side. i.e. "Come on now, you act all tough, but I can see through you. I can see you are a caring girl inside. Maybe you have been hurt in the past when showing your sweet side to guys, but you don't have to worry about that with me. Just be yourself ". Then be prepared for a total change of personality ... or to run away while she tries to club you to death :wink:
That's pretty brilliant. I'll give this one a shot J. If it doesn't work I shall drop her like shes not hot.
Author:  TheJ [ Wed Aug 12, 2009 12:11 pm ]
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It looks like you found someone you thought you were attracted to at first, but then you find out shes no fun, not your style, a crazy bitch...

This happens all the time.
Wow, you do know how to make your point come across do you ;)

That being said, I remember reading somewhere that girls that show a certain type of personality are often quite the opposite personality down inside. I might give it a last shot, calling her out on her soft side. i.e. "Come on now, you act all tough, but I can see through you. I can see you are a caring girl inside. Maybe you have been hurt in the past when showing your sweet side to guys, but you don't have to worry about that with me. Just be yourself ". Then be prepared for a total change of personality ... or to run away while she tries to club you to death :wink:
That's pretty brilliant. I'll give this one a shot J. If it doesn't work I shall drop her like shes not hot.
Good luck, and do give feedback. Yeah if it doesn't work droping sounds the best option you would have left.
Author:  Visionxxxxxx [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 11:06 am ]
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sounds like my ex....seriously to the tee. you'll probably find she has a history physical abuse in her family (even if it was with her brother). no-one gets physically aggresive like that without child hood beliefs being imprinted from a young age.

Run.
Author:  Athar [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 7:25 pm ]
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She is most likely great in bed. Bang her, NOW!
Author:  Visionxxxxxx [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 8:32 pm ]
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ye just dont forget to wear a helmet encase she punches your lights out as she peaks.
Author:  domalo [ Thu Aug 13, 2009 8:45 pm ]
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haha vision ur post reminds me of that californication episode when hes screwin that girl and she just whacks him in the face, soo funny :lol: :lol: :lol:

sorry for the spam wont happen again :oops: just had to say it!
Author:  irishlad [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 2:37 pm ]
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my friend is going out with a girl like that she says hello to me by kneeing me in the nuts...
Author:  eskwire [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 11:54 pm ]
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Well if you want to get laid you should agree and amplify.

If she wants to get physical then start wrestling with her. Of course, you can't do that at the club in front of everyone, so maybe drag her into the bathroom and pin her up against a wall. Teach her a lesson for being a tough girl.

She has a 22 caliber? Tell her about your Colt 45 that fires like a cannon - but you doubt she'll ever get to see that kind of gun in action!

If you don't like what she's doing then you probably will have to next her.
Author:  TheDandy [ Thu Aug 27, 2009 2:41 am ]
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Well if you want to get laid you should agree and amplify.

If she wants to get physical then start wrestling with her. Of course, you can't do that at the club in front of everyone, so maybe drag her into the bathroom and pin her up against a wall. Teach her a lesson for being a tough girl.

She has a 22 caliber? Tell her about your Colt 45 that fires like a cannon - but you doubt she'll ever get to see that kind of gun in action!

If you don't like what she's doing then you probably will have to next her.
LOL "Colt 45 that fires like a cannon" that is fucking great dude. Too bad I've been out of internet for the past week!!

Athar - that was my initial idea. Well lets just say it didn't go too well.

So I tried J's advice over a Facebook message not long ago and all I was getting in return were childish remarks that made me feel pretty stupid. I said I was gonna be right back to grab a bite. She called me fatty. At this point I thought ok...maybe calling her a weirdo is a bit judgmental. I don't like being judgmental. I'd rather look at things situationally so I could step back and ask myself. "Hmm...how could I alter this to go my way?"

Anyways I went to the club in SF I usually frequent where I was feeling on TOP of my game. I had a significant amount of attraction and kino built up with 3 different girls. Thats not important but I felt it was worth mentioning. I was outside having bro talk with a couple dudes I just befriended when she comes along and hits me right above the stomach. You know? That soft part right below the rib cage? I grabbed her by the arms and scolded her like a child and told her something along the lines of "go sit in the corner". Fortunately it kinda worked out for me because immediately after this cute and sorta wild and free spirited Filipino girl with dorky glasses and a lip ring kissed me in the tummy. I danced it up with her later and man...it was pleasant. Unfortunately I got kicked out for walking my friend to his car. No ins and outs. I was totally bummed out I didn't get a kiss close with that girl. Sigghhh...

The week after didn't go so well. I met up with punchy and her friends at another electro club when I tried to give her a hug in line. She put on this cutsey face and promised not to hit me. Guess what happened next? She hit me. I was starting to get kinda pissed off at this point but I tried to recover like a good soldier and socialize with her friends. After a couple minutes she came over to me again and hit me again. I grabbed her arms. She kneed me in the balls with a childish giggle.

Imagine a baby Satan. That was her.

I started to get the stomach contraptions and the abdominal pains. I felt like a complete idiot. I said something like. "Wow that was seriously not cool" then stood there kinda introspectively for a minute amongst the crowd. When I bitched about this to her best friend. She put on this really sweet smile and a soft and serine voice and said. "Sorry, she used you that night. She played you. I taught her hella game." Imagine being told that with a mother fucking smile!! All of a sudden I realized what a fake and bitchy crowd they were and that they were not my friends at all.

Right then and there, I wanted to to beat the shit out of her and her friend. I didn't. I ended up dancing with an HB6 for the fucking sake of it and I ended up being in a bit of a drunken rage in the parking lot.

I don't know what to say. She thinks she played me. I thought I gamed her and I wasn't intending on gaming her after that second time she punched me yet baby satan still thought I was gaming her. Ugh...Its fucking giving me a headache.

For some reason I'm not feeling as confident as I did ever since that ball breaking night. Any suggestions for how to get over this?
Author:  Athar [ Thu Aug 27, 2009 7:48 pm ]
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I've slept with one truly crazy domina bitch. Was about one and a half year ago. Reminds me of this, though she didn't really hit me. Was more about scratching me to blood with her nails, biting, using hand cuffs and trying to bite my tongue off every time we kissed. Kind of a fun and painful experience. Don't know if I'll go along with that again unless the psychopath is really hot.
She might have had some interest in doing just that to you, but she probably changed her mind when you got too serious when facing her "playful" punching.
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