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| Author: | sidrikk [ Sat Jul 18, 2009 10:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | To move or not to move |
Here is my newbie question of the day... What would you do if your very small city had a very small amount of girls in it? I am in a small town. I have been working on myself for about three years, becoming better and better almost daily. I have quit smoking, become the best worker at my job, gotten better clothes, started working out, and calibrated my image to a point where I can get a lot more women. I am doing pretty good. Sometimes, I dress up and I go out looking for women to talk to. My city has a very short supply of available women and more than half the time I come home without having met anyone. Unless, I go to a bar I barely ever see girls. But my city only has one bar. As a young man, I have dated probably more than half the girls that I see in there. Everyone still sees me as the old me and many are uncomfortable with the positive changes I've made. Where I used to be passive, I am now assertive. I used to put up with people mocking me, now I mock them back etc. I have made some excellent adjustments to my whole being, the next one is just around the corner (concerning my career) and I feel like I have outgrown my city. If you were in my position would you pack it in and go to a bigger city? I think a fresh start might in a new city be the next logical step in my life, but honestly, the main reason I would move is to find a city with a bit more women. |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Sun Jul 19, 2009 12:02 am ] |
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Move man, move! Its the best thing that can happen to you! |
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| Author: | 96Firebird [ Sun Jul 19, 2009 12:22 am ] |
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If I were you I'd look at the pros and cons of moving. How old are you? How stable is your current job, and is it what you plan on doing the rest of your life? Are you still in school? Can you afford to move? Don't just do it for the women, there are things to think about before moving. Finding a job in the current ecomonic situation is not going to be easy... |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jul 19, 2009 8:48 pm ] |
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I've lived in NYC my entire life and I now live in a small town(of about 2,000) and my game is really being fuccing stifles |
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| Author: | sidrikk [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 5:02 pm ] |
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Quote: If I were you I'd look at the pros and cons of moving. How old are you? How stable is your current job, and is it what you plan on doing the rest of your life? Are you still in school? Can you afford to move? Don't just do it for the women, there are things to think about before moving. Finding a job in the current ecomonic situation is not going to be easy...
Dude...in my small town, one thing I didn't mention is that on top of a lack of quality women, we are also lacking in terms of jobs. If you think about it, it makes perfect sense, how many people do you know go to a BIGGER city and have a HARDER time finding a job? In terms of finding more suitable and higher paying employment, this will be an added benefit of moving to a larger area. To answer your questions, I am 33, my current job is just that...a "job" its not a career. I have taken accounting and worked for banks in a number of different aspects. Currently, in the town I'm in (I moved back here due to a "falling down" episode I had) there are no big banks or office buildiings, whereas when I lived in the "big city" I was doing much better in terms of employment. I can't afford to move at the moment, but naturally would not move until the money for a few months rent was in the bank and all the other factors involved with moving were considered and dealt with. The current economic situation is, as far as I've understood, on its way back up. I think finding employment relevant to my skills will not be that hard as I have already perused the job boards in those cities and I like what I see. The thing is, I am comfortable in my current job, I am good at it, people like me. I have a few good friends to hang with and my family is also here which is nice. But I want women. I love women. My goal as far as becoming a pua are to have about three - five girls that I can call up on any given day and get laid if need be. I am not looking for a wife, I am looking for quantity at this point, diversity, fun and excitement. My question should be reiterated. If you had all your family and friends around you, comfort in your job and a stable life, but not enough girls around, would you take your chances going where there are more girls and possibly at the same time, put yourself in a position to make more money? I think when the question is put this way the answer becomes apparent. Time to start saving.... |
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| Author: | sidrikk [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 5:09 pm ] |
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Quote: I've lived in NYC my entire life and I now live in a small town(of about 2,000) and my game is really being fuccing stifles
I hear you. When I was in the bigger city, while studying, I had way more girls and I wasn't even reading or using the advice on these sites. Now I have all this great knowledge and tips and no girls to practise on...I went to the next biggest city beside mine today and in like ten minutes I saw about the same amount of good looking women that I would see in my city in a week. I'm not even exaggerating. |
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| Author: | TheTruthPUA [ Mon Jul 20, 2009 6:09 pm ] |
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I think you should move, with this recession nowadays it is better as far as jobs, and women .... and with a bigger city becomes more job opportunites and alot more women ... you have to remember with changing your image some people have those memories and first impression instill in your head ... Other option would be maybe to drive out, further to a big city every once in a while for women and keep your job .... 
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