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| Author: | abstracted [ Thu Jul 16, 2009 9:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Steering relationships in the casual direction... |
as opposed to ending up with a girlfriend. Prior to discovering the community, girls naturally became girlfriends once we were attracted to each other. We'd go to the beach, watch a movie, go for a meal, go for a bike ride etc. (boyfriend girlfriend things) and somewhere along the way we would become just that. Now that I am getting better game I have several girls attracted to me, and but don't want any as girlfriends (as that would stifle my progress), but of course need to escalate from # closes to sex. I am pretty unfamiliar with this process, its not my natural mode of behaviour. How can I make sure she knows she isn't entering into a formal relationship? How can I maximize my chances of success even if she were hoping for a more formal relationship? My current guess is disqualifying her while escalating and building attraction/tension. Something like bait-hook-reel-release: "I don't date girls that X." Is it better to be direct: "I'm not looking for a girlfriend" while building attraction and tension? |
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