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Author:  TheMarketer [ Tue Jul 14, 2009 8:37 am ]
Post subject:  Friend Zone to Some Bed Action?
Hey folks!
I have been lurking for a while and well decided to finally sign up because I had some questions... I am new but I am a fast learner.

So, I have been with my gf for 6 years or so. She was my first serious girlfriend, first sex... first everything but we broke up recently - for good. Because I spent all that time with her, I never really dated - so I have no experience.

anyways, here is the story that matters.

Three years ago, when I was in school I met this girl(HB9) there and we shared the same hobby - photography, so we used to hang out often and practice our photo skills. Sometimes we went out for lunch or supper but we had that "FRIEND" relationship going on.

One year ago HB9 left the country and a week ago she cane back. So she threw a party and I was invited... opening sets was easy since it was a small private party (30-40 people) and it was kind of obvious that whoever showed up was either HB's friend or a friend of her friends... so I guess everyone felt comfortable.

I came there with a goal to have fun and see HB and some other old friends but after a few beers I thought why not try some PUA stuff? So I threw some negs, some routines and although I was doing it for the first time - it worked! I even #closed 2 girls and facebook closed another one.

... at about 4 am there were only a few people left and HB9 took away my motorcycle keys so I don't kill myself - I wasn't planning on riding the bike in that state anyways... So I was sitting on a bench in the backyard and I was pretty drunk so I started falling asleep. HB9 : "Dude, wtf? don't sleep outside, we have beds in the house" then she guides me to some room and I crush on the bed. She says "good nite" and leaves.

I wake up at about 10 am, HB9 cuddling on my chest... so we start talking a bit. catching up then she proceeds on telling me how "Stupid she is for always hooking up with assholes that nearly ruin her life"... She didn't hook-up with anyone on that particular night, she was talking about most of her past relationships... Then she says: "It's cool to have a friend like you"...

... and I don't want to be just a friend. I mean... she is the kind of girl that would make a perfect fuck buddy/ booty call but I have no clue how to make that happen. I guess she sees me as "NICE GUY" - which I am and which I know is usually a turn off for most girls. She is one of them. She likes bad boys...

I was wondering, are there any special routines for that kind of case? To turn from a NICE GUY to BAD BOY? To escape the "Let's just be friends" zone?

She is coming for a few drinks and to see my new place in a week. Maybe I could do something to change her "View" of me... I just have no clue what to do :(

Any help will be appreciated,

Sorry for the long post.

TheMarketer
Author:  Bushbaby [ Tue Jul 14, 2009 12:32 pm ]
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well i got a friend whos a girl and we are tight as we tell each other eveything, and i just tell her how i would treat a girl and what im looking for, i dna if she liked me the whole time but we were soo close anyways we talk bout relationships all the time.
After some time of being, she always gets me invited to partys and one party she got me invited to she wanted me to stay so i did and randomly shagged out of the blue. which i thought was a bit wierd since we were such close friends, deep in the 'friend zone'.
I dna if this will help or not but im just suggesting maybe you talk to her about relationships what she's looking for see what you have in common of what kind of guy she's looking for and let her know what your lookinng for in a girl and maybe she'll start liking you. however this could put you deeper into the friends zone, very risky.
Yet its not all bad being in the friend zone, she can be your pivot meet new girls, her friends, get a ggirls view on stuff, great advantages of having close friends who are girls.
Author:  Redkid [ Tue Jul 14, 2009 3:26 pm ]
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Like BushBaby said.

But he's asking what he should do. Well first relax, get your body language right. When you sit down, lean back, im sure it shouldn't be hard for you since your both comfortable. Do cocky funny, and KINO, it shouldn't be hard since your both close.

Also When you met this girl, were you an AFC at the time? Has she seen how much you've changed? - Redkid
Author:  TheMarketer [ Tue Jul 14, 2009 5:53 pm ]
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Like BushBaby said.

But he's asking what he should do. Well first relax, get your body language right. When you sit down, lean back, im sure it shouldn't be hard for you since your both comfortable. Do cocky funny, and KINO, it shouldn't be hard since your both close.

Also When you met this girl, were you an AFC at the time? Has she seen how much you've changed? - Redkid
I wasn't as much of an AFC to her as simply a very nice guy, wiling to go out of my way to help her. She know that I dated an HB7 for a while and that I have quite a few friends... so, I guess not too much of an AFC.

I guess I will try with some cocky/funny and negs. She's an HB9 and she knows it very well. I also know her well enough to assume that if we do have a sexual relationship, it will not ruin our "friendship" if you can call it that.

Although I do need to spend some times learning about ALPHA/BAD BOY stuff...

Thanks for the advice so far.
Author:  TheMarketer [ Wed Jul 15, 2009 5:05 pm ]
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... any more suggestions?
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