Ok, so here's this situation that i REALLY can't figure out by myself. Hope any of you guys can help me out on finding out wtf went wrong. lol
There's this 8.5, maybe close to a 9 girl, she's a bit younger than me, I'm 24 and she's 19. I have a good job, was never a shy person and my communication skills are good. I'm not exactly handsome, but I take good care of myself, so that isn't a problem. I went through the unclinging, unneeding, cocky and funny and "let's be friends" routine pretty well, as I might say. The last 2 weeks she was asking me out, insistently, and I was doing the "playing hard to get" thing. Also, everyone was like "dude, she's all over you, what are you waiting for?" Ok, last friday I decided to finally go out with her, as she invited me to go to a rave. When I got there, I sent her an SMS telling her to go out of the party to meet me. She, in fact, did it (in less than 5 minutes) and we got into the rave: me, my Wingman (also one of my best friends), her and a girl friend of hers.
Once in there I was handling the situation pretty well, she bought me a couple of drinks of my preference and even when I asked "where are your friends?" she answered with "nah, it's just 4 or 5 boys that we got a ride from". Needless to say that she was kinda chasing me around at the rave, so much that I in fact asked "are you following me?" for what she replied a some sort of "I thought you hadn't noticed", enthusiatic "I am!", followed by giggles. Then I called her to go outside of the rave tent (it was a psytrance rave, they seem to LOVE tents) and started caressing her hair while chatting. She seemed to enjoy that A LOT. I even slithgly pulled her hair right above her neck, on the back and asked "enjoying that?" and she was like melting down "yessss...". Then, OF COURSE, I tried to engage on kissing her. Now, imagine my surprise when she backed up and said "I thought we were only going to be friends!" Right after that, I said "Well, I'm not the one losing anything here...", and she replied with "Oh, now you're gonna leave me in doubt?" Then we stared at each other for a little while, I tried to kiss her AGAIN and AGAIN she backed up. Then I said "Ok, then." and walked off as nothing had happened. Then I went around meeting new girls with my wing. The thing is, even after we "dismissed" them both - my wing didn't like her friend much - they kept on following us, dancing near us and even when we went to sit and chill a bit with 2 other girls, they sat with us and started talking.
On monday she sent me an SMS asking how the rest of my weekend was and I just replied "it was quite surprising, I'll tell you more on that later".
Since then I didn't contact her again. (btw, today is wednesday)
So, guys... WTF went wrong? Help me out on this one, cuz I'm kinda clueless.
And thanks in advance!
