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| Author: | Daelin [ Tue Jun 30, 2009 11:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | First try ever, need lots of help :P |
So, I was at the mall today, I bought new shoes/shirt/pants, and I saw 2 girls sitting on the bench. I was with 2 of my friends, and I told them about this PUA stuff. They told me to go say hi to them and say something after. I went up to them and was like, "Hey, you two look like you have pretty good fashion, how do I look?" Both of their faces went really red and was like "Pretty good...", which I would have taken as an IOI, judging by their body language. After they said Pretty good I kinda just said thanks and walked away. What I wanted was a # close, I failed BUT that was my first ever attempt to talk to random girls who I don't know. When I went up to them I was not prepared with a story or anything. When I approach people I want it to be a natural approach, not an unnatural one, but unnatural might be the way to start and once I am comfortable with it then I can switch. They were 6.5's, nothing special but a good start. What could I have to seem more interesting/attractive? (Keep in mind this was my FIRST approach ever). |
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| Author: | xibuz [ Wed Jul 01, 2009 6:50 am ] |
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At the mall with friends, and you go to talk to a girl. That's a perfect time constraint- she sees you are with them and just came to ask a question. If you get IOIs or even if you have a good interaction, a @close would be so eazy. What you did is you knocked them totally off guard, shattered their present reality and made them blush. You clearly had all the power and could have even asked them to take a picture with you, which of course leads to a facebook/myspace close. Why I suggest @ closes for situations like these is you just met her/them and only talk shortly. While she might not give her # out so quickly, that cool guy she met at the mall dexerves facebook/myspace friend status. Then you comment on her pictures, she comments on yours (altought they usually comment first on mine), you soon exchange numbers and meet up IRL once again. I wish I had friends to walk around malls with, but alone I closes some chicks while roaming outdoor malls a loner. I feel like I'm coming back from or going out to somewhere, passing by and just happened to talk to her. This allows for a false time constraint to get her username cuz I gotta go meet my friends, or if its late at night an intsant night2 , cuz I just got back from hanging out and now I feel like going to (place), you should come. |
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| Author: | Harleystcool [ Thu Jul 02, 2009 6:49 pm ] |
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When in day game i usually fly solo. First becuase when in day time friends are great, but we step on each others feet to much ( talk to much, lose focus of the task ), and your not going to open when your in a group with your friends, that'll just make you look like a pussy. Also theres a big chance they see your with your friends and there watching, that'll blow you out too, they think its a joke or your doing it for props to impress the boys. Day time is for flyin solo man, night time its best to bring the boys. Heres a tip, always be geniune, you don't exactly got to be honest ( you can lie about stories ), just remember something honest as your doing it, remember your reason for sarging, or remember in your mind that the girl really is cute and you want to talk to her. |
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