PUA Forum :: Frame/State when talking to hotties

I don't think gunwitch says to be in a sexual state right at the opening.
He says to assume rapport in the opening.
sexual state comes much later.
I try to be charming & charismatic and create rapport in the opening.

The proper frame is that you're the prize and you're qualifying her and she has to prove she is worthy of you, which means the way that you act and talk reflects that frame.

the answer for me usuall depens on who i'm talking to and the social context.

So, what is your state when you open a girl?

Is it a sexual state like in Gunwitch?
Is it calm cool and collected?

This post is for everyone to say what their state actually is and what they want it to be.

For me I want my state to be relaxed and sexual (like Gunwitch I suppose), but I still have AA which makes my results less than desired.

Author:	GC Blue [ Mon Jun 29, 2009 3:30 pm ]
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So, what is your state when you open a girl? Is it a sexual state like in Gunwitch? Is it calm cool and collected? This post is for everyone to say what their state actually is and what they want it to be. For me I want my state to be relaxed and sexual (like Gunwitch I suppose), but I still have AA which makes my results less than desired.

Author:	Jaybot [ Mon Jun 29, 2009 5:02 pm ]
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It changes from interaction to interaction but I am usually really chilled

Author:	Jav [ Mon Jun 29, 2009 5:06 pm ]
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EVERYONE LOOOOOVEEEESSSS MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE ~HUG~

Author:	Billionaire [ Mon Jun 29, 2009 5:06 pm ]
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I don't think gunwitch says to be in a sexual state right at the opening. He says to assume rapport in the opening. sexual state comes much later. I try to be charming & charismatic and create rapport in the opening. The proper frame is that you're the prize and you're qualifying her and she has to prove she is worthy of you, which means the way that you act and talk reflects that frame.

Author:	Ravencroft [ Tue Sep 29, 2009 7:34 am ]
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Quote: I don't think gunwitch says to be in a sexual state right at the opening. He says to assume rapport in the opening. sexual state comes much later. I try to be charming & charismatic and create rapport in the opening. The proper frame is that you're the prize and you're qualifying her and she has to prove she is worthy of you, which means the way that you act and talk reflects that frame. You're misremembering very badly. Gunwitch says to be in sexual state all the while you're interacting with her.

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Author:	Exerio [ Tue Sep 29, 2009 10:59 am ]
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I usually don't make myself to go into a state, it just comes to me. If I feel horny I am horny, and I don't mind the girl knowing. If I feel another state it is the same, why not just act the way you feel like. Instead of crossing your feelings? - Exerio

Author:	Sexcellent [ Wed Sep 30, 2009 12:15 am ]
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the answer for me usuall depens on who i'm talking to and the social context. when i talk to exceptionally attractive women (hb 8.5 and up) i usually find myself in a motivated and challenge-seeking state. this is probably because i personally believe that as an AFC i could never pull a girl like that, while as a PUA, the sky is the limit. if that doesn't get your blood flowing, i don't know what will

Author:	Manda Chuva [ Wed Sep 30, 2009 12:38 am ]
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Calm , comfortable & Relaxed.

Author:	Visionxxxxxx [ Wed Sep 30, 2009 8:27 am ]
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Quote: the answer for me usuall depens on who i'm talking to and the social context. Exactly. Think it was style that said enter with equal or higher energy. Try approaching a set of hyperactive party girls that are laughing and bouncing around while being calm and relaxed....you wont get very far. Its all about behavioral flexibility. definition for those who are new to this term... "Treating people the way they want to be treated, thus building trust, confidence and rapport - the basis for positive results in even the most challenging situations."

Author:	mofolo [ Wed Sep 30, 2009 10:05 am ]
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Quote: So, what is your state when you open a girl? Is it a sexual state like in Gunwitch? Is it calm cool and collected? This post is for everyone to say what their state actually is and what they want it to be. For me I want my state to be relaxed and sexual (like Gunwitch I suppose), but I still have AA which makes my results less than desired. Here is a little tool i use, and it works 90% of the time. Find a turn off about this person. If not on their face/looks, it could be their personality. Sometimes (rarely), I think that these girls are perfect.. so I just use a "I'm the sexiest man alive" mentality to keep me from stuttering and/or wetting myself. Give it a go.

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