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| Author: | jayjay13 [ Mon May 18, 2009 2:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Very confused need a little help. |
So I am new to all of this but heres the story and a little background. Me and my GF of 2 years split 2 months ago, we lived together for 2 years and then she pretty much dumped me. We dated in high school for about year and she was the first and only girl ive ever slept with till this day. Anyways we broke up I was tore up for awhile but decided it was probly for the better since shes the only girl I've been with and im 24. So recently ive been hanging out with my friends more and have been meeting all the girls they know and their friends. So we were all out one day/night and this one girl really interested me, we were hangout out most of the day in a big group but i really didn't talk to her. I ended up talking to her about 3 hours after i met her and everything was going good. I didn't try any PUA because this was before i even found this site or anything related. So I got her number, and told her I wanted to take her out, she said she would really like that then the night ended cause she left with friends. I ended up calling her the later the next night, got no answer, left a message saying just seeing if she wanted to meet up. She texted me the following day saying she seen my call and was sorry but that this week was bad for her cause shes studying for her CPA. I said ok and went about my life happening to run into all of her friends while out who said she wanted me thought i was so hott blah blah blah. So now im just confused, they said she really is busy cause the CPA but i just feel she woulda made time if she really liked me. I texted her later the next week because a common friend was having a party, she said she was gonna go but never did, she did text letting me know she couldnt make it though and all her friends once again were calling me her "guy". Just looking for any input, do I call her again to ask her out? do I text again? She said after her test is over she promises we will see each other. We have many common friends so I will obviously run into her again im thinking I should just go on but kind of unsure. |
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| Author: | breaker [ Mon May 18, 2009 3:08 pm ] |
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dude what kind of question is that? the answer is just common sense if she talks about you to her friends especially saying she wants you and you are hot and gave u her number then she is obviously interested but here is a tip her CPA is important to her more important than you and so it should be. Just wait till she is ready don't rush her you sound like a clingy chick man, noone likes needy people and that's how you are coming across. Just let things ride when you run into her be pleasant, be interesting and appeal to her read through the forum posts there are many ways to do this she is obviously just busy SPAM. |
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| Author: | jayjay13 [ Mon May 18, 2009 4:49 pm ] |
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good points I guess I just am unable to see things and am over thinking the situation, kinda blame my lack of experience but thats what I am trying to change. The last thing I wanna do is come off clingy. I guess I just have a problem believing girls excuses can actually be valid. Either way Im am gonna just leave her alone cause I know I will see her again even if its not from being initiated by me. |
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| Author: | DateCoachChris [ Mon May 18, 2009 5:54 pm ] |
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Don't chase her around with multiple phone calls and texts. If you call or text her and she messages you back. It is phone tag and she is interested in you. If you call her 8 times with no response. She has moved on. I am a student and there are weeks in my life where showering is my only recreational activity. She sounds like she is interested in you. Just don't hound her as that will scare her away before the first date. Women want confident leaders not needy followers. |
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