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| Author: | Cmtz [ Sun May 17, 2009 11:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is it possible for my ex gf to shit test me? |
I'm new to all of this stuff. After my ex broke up with me I started reading up on this. We went to Walmart and I started looking for some medicine she walks away and pretends to be looking at some other stuff. At that point I figure I would start small talk with one of the workers there. It worked. She and I started a conversation and after I was done looking for my stuff. I walked over to the ex and we left to pay. While paying she walks away again. It pissed me off, but I didn't follow since I was paying. The next week we went to a comedy club and while I was holding our front seats she walks away again. She said she was gonna watch the game on the T.V. I start talking to the people next to me. After 5 minutes she comes back and gets my attention by showing me some pictures. Was this a shit test or does it look like she has no interest in starting a relationship again? I would love any help. Thanks. |
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| Author: | breaker [ Sun May 17, 2009 1:00 pm ] |
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I personally think you are reading into it too much man, look for IOI. walking away from you is not an IOI as far as I am concerned and in my experience ex's that have wanted to get back with me have wanted to spend as much time with me as possible and constantly talk about times we had that were good. Girls are as conniving as us except we have to practice our art it is second nature to them so they will try and make you remember good times and make you miss her and want her back. Just go for it man if an opportunity arises go for the kiss if she rejects then such is life and since she is an ex just tell her you misread the signs you obviously have history and she should expect you to still have feelings for her so she may be weird for a few days but then everything will go back to the way they were before you attempted to kiss her. |
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| Author: | Cmtz [ Sun May 17, 2009 1:16 pm ] |
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The reason I ask is because I get signals that she still likes me. She'll often text me at night before she falls asleep good night dork for a couple nights in a row when we haven't talked all day. But once again I might be reading to much into this as well. |
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| Author: | breaker [ Sun May 17, 2009 1:21 pm ] |
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well that is an IOI right there but it becomes complicated with ex's it could also just be that she cares about you I mean I care about my ex's especially my last one and I still send her a message every now and then to make her smile which would appear as an IOI but it's not I just like to know she is smiling. As I said man if your interested in her still make the move you pretty much have nothing to lose because you have already lost it don't wait for her to make the move you will be waiting forever and she will replace you even if she likes you. GO FOR IT CHAMP. |
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| Author: | Cmtz [ Sun May 17, 2009 1:29 pm ] |
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breaker thanks for the info... I'll make the move soon. Now I just have to think of a way. |
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| Author: | breaker [ Sun May 17, 2009 1:45 pm ] |
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No problems man and good luck. My suggestion for you first is try some cocky funny like next time she sends you a test like goodnight dork send back yeah sweet dreams to you too not to sweet though I don't want you dreaming about me and taking advantage of me when I am not there to defend myself. Or play at her with stuff like YOU - you know I used to think you were really smart HER - and you don't now? why not? YOU - strike a pose and say you gave up all this [ make sure u smile] (if she has seen zoolander do blue steel and say something like blue steel zoolander eat your heart out) or next time you see her ask her if she wants to come over for sex and pizza if she says no say what? I thought you liked pizza but ok we can just skip it if we have to but I was kinda looking forward to the pizza. look for positive results the best thing about the pizza one is even if you get a negative after asking her it is quickly turned into a joke and she will laugh I have never had it backfire on me ever. these are just a couple quick suggestions I am sure someone will give some better ones or you may know some but they should show where you stand anyway. |
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| Author: | Cmtz [ Sun May 17, 2009 1:52 pm ] |
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thanks I'll try that. One last question since this has been on my mind a lot. As we were going into the store she kept talking about her hands. First she said they itched. As we walked out she said they were clamy and she wanted me to touch them so I could feel them. Anything here? |
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| Author: | breaker [ Sun May 17, 2009 2:01 pm ] |
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mmmm unsure of that one man never heard it before you should have squeezed her hand and seen if she squeezed back that is an IOI but maybe her hands were genuinely itchy or she may have been craving contact with you and wanting the warmth of having someone you care about taking your hand in theirs there is a certain comfort in that for both male and female. This could only be guessed at though bro noone will know for sure except her as it could have honestly been itchy as that would also become clammy due to itchy skin perspirating. |
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