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| Author: | drentherealdeal [ Sun May 17, 2009 8:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | New brother in need of help :) |
hws it going brothers, would it gd 2 help me on dis situation  ders dis pretty girl at college dt im trying 2 move to..we get on great but ders just too many guys on her..she acts innocent but she loves da attention..wt steps shuld i tak...help wuld b gd,sfeee |
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| Author: | Zip [ Sun May 17, 2009 8:38 am ] |
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as a moderator here, I'm just giving some helpful advice.... You're from London, yes? English is the forum's primary language... If I were you, I'd revamp my question in (somewhat) proper grammar (or at least, recognizable grammar) and you may get replies. As of now, you will not get anything of quality. |
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| Author: | drentherealdeal [ Sun May 17, 2009 8:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Sorry about the language |
There is this pretty girl at college, we get on great but one problem is that so many guys that flirt with her and she loves the attention, which just puts me down but when I am just with her, things are good. She has seen me talk to many other girls but I don't know how to use that to my advantage. Help would be good, Thanks |
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| Author: | Zip [ Sun May 17, 2009 9:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Sorry about the language |
Quote: There is this pretty girl at college, we get on great but one problem is that so many guys that flirt with her and she loves the attention, which just puts me down but when I am just with her, things are good. She has seen me talk to many other girls but I don't know how to use that to my advantage.
Okay. There we go. Help would be good, Thanks She loves the PUBLIC attention, so take it away from her. When you are just with her alone, keep it the same or lessen it a bit. It will make her qualify. You don't have to use talking to other girls and having her see it to your advantage... it just IS to your advantage. Preselection is an attraction switch. But... are the girls you are talking to of high caliber? Make friends with as many high value women as you can, and don't even think about sleeping with them. They are the greatest tools you have to getting the HIGH HIGH value women that you deserve (hopefully.) However, not being completely infatuated with her (especially because she is a pretty girl) is ALSO an attraction switch. This is why 1st and 2nd generation PUAs developed NEGS. I'm not saying use them, just understand the social science behind them and apply ignoring her fabulosity publicly for a while in accordance. Try it out. Does that answer your question? |
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| Author: | drentherealdeal [ Tue May 19, 2009 6:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | update |
Followed your advice...worked wonders, i just treated her normally,not flirting with her at all like the others,so we got talking about all things, but now I don't know how to kiss-close, help would be good. Thanks |
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| Author: | Memento [ Tue May 19, 2009 7:47 pm ] |
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Going in for the kiss right away at this point would be difficult. Essentially you need to learn the process of Kino Escalation, the process of slowly physically escalating with a girl until the kiss is just the next logical step, not just some big jump you have to make in the dark. Start by slowly touching her on her arms/shoulders to get her comfortable with your touch and judge how comfortable she is with your touch and slowly escalate (but or god sake's don't grope her). Use the search function on this forum for a "Kiss Close", I'm currently a fan of this one at the moment. - Memento |
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