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Author:  indianreaper [ Sat May 16, 2009 9:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Responsive but takes no initiative, Help/advice needed

Sorry if this is the wrong forum, I'm new.

I met this hb8 last week who is flirty. After our first conversation she said she'd facebook me about hanging out cuz my roommate has 2 cats and she loves cats. She doesn't. I run into her the next day at another social event. Again, she is very responsive, giving lots of IOI's and says she really will facebook me this time. She doesn't and under intense pressure from my roommate I friended and started a fb conversation. Again she is all Heyyyy! and such. At the end I say I hate fb conversations, give her my screen name and she should IM me. She gives me her sceen name too. I run into her at the gym and when I get home I IM her "following me around already..." She is again responsive and flirty. Since then we have spoken online a couple times at my initiative and ran into each other but she never initiates conversation. When I reminded her about coming over she suggested her friend come with her to my place...

I'm stuck, confused and frustrated. Any advice at all for this WBAFC would be truly appreciated. Thanks guys. If you need any additional info just ask.

Author:  indianreaper [ Sun May 17, 2009 3:24 am ]
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Ok,

Next question. How long do I have to wait before I can post a repeat of my problem on one of the other topics to try to get some advice?

Author:  Killians [ Sun May 17, 2009 6:55 pm ]
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She could just be a girl who doesn't take the initiative. Younger girls (high school/early college) tend to be this way a little bit.

Or

She could be uninterested but a friendly person. This explains why she is super friendly when you approach her, but she is not interested enough to where she will go out of her way for you. Also, probably the reason she wants to invite her friend to your place and not go alone.

Author:  indianreaper [ Sun May 17, 2009 7:32 pm ]
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Shes a junior in college.

If she is uninterested but friendly does that mean my game is over and I'm not gonna get anywhere or can I turn it around?

Thanx for the help.

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