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Author:  mrcoffee999888 [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 7:35 pm ]
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Anyone know any good routines or patterns for a good boyfriend destroyer?
Author:  Jaybot [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 7:40 pm ]
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I usually build attraction till I look better than their boyfriend then just ask if it matters that they have a bf, make it slow and use your fuck me eyes and it should work.

If its a long term sorta deal and the guy is actually kinda cool you will have to work on it a bit more.

Ask what is it like to be in a perfect relationship, they respond with the faults. Relay one or two with made anecdotes about ex gfs and subtly insinuate they aren't right for each other. And if she still isn't biting then just fucking use nlp hehehe.

Anchor the opposite of his faults and the things she likes most about him to yourself. Whilst linking bad things to her bf.
Author:  Corey [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 7:44 pm ]
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Why go for someone taken and ruin the relationship? ESPECIALLY if the relationship is going good. Try for the single ones.
Author:  darklunar [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 8:08 pm ]
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I don't even think it is possible to get a girl that's in a good relationship. Why would she just give it all up for some other guy?
Author:  mrcoffee999888 [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 8:32 pm ]
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this specific scenario involves a "not so happy" on again Off again relationship thats long distance, where the dude, who i've met once is a total mess.
Author:  mrcoffee999888 [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 8:32 pm ]
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this specific scenario involves a "not so happy" on again Off again relationship thats long distance, where the dude, who i've met once is a total mess.
Author:  hollywoodd [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 8:43 pm ]
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honestly im in the type of situation where i built up so much rapport with an HB9 in one night, made out with her, and now we text all the time
but she wont see me cuz she has a boyfriend and she is still attracted to me and i only seen her that one night
thats how powerful this stuff works
like i tell her that i am fine with just being her friend (and take her as a pivot cuz she is freakin gorgeous) but shes scared she will be too tempted around me
which really sucks. i mean yeah i feel kind of bad for getting her to kiss me. but she said she doesnt regret it. and wishes she could be with me but still wants to be with her boyfriend.

i mean you have to respect what she wants though. because if you were her boyfriend i dont think you would want her going behind your back with some other guy.
Author:  Tall_Guy [ Tue Apr 28, 2009 9:47 pm ]
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Honestly I have been in two minds about BF destroying. Well the last week or so its been a factor. I have a girl telling me she can't wait to see me and stuff but I am not sure about where to go with this one. She likes me and she is hot and cool but I don't think I want to push this further.

But if I did use a BF destroyer I would do the whole defending him but also DHVing myself and make out how nice of a guy he was blah blah blah.
Author:  Jaybot [ Wed Apr 29, 2009 12:21 am ]
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As I see it no one gave a fuck about stealing my women when I was with them so why would I give a fuck? If there relationship is great nothing will come of it .... most aren't.
Author:  ninjah [ Wed Apr 29, 2009 12:45 am ]
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I think its a really retarded subject to be honest. There is so many single HBs that why would you go for ones with BFs?

If they are interested and it's a guilt thing, then u don't need to destroy their BFs image, you just make sure they realize a casual hook-up is all your looking for.
Author:  mrcoffee999888 [ Wed Apr 29, 2009 6:03 pm ]
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without going into detail, I've known this girl for a couple months casually through friends. One night I met up with her at a party, and we hit it off, After playing mystery's question game, she sent me a text later that night that said "have you ever masturbated to me" I said "I only masturbate to myself... what about you" she said "I have masturbated to you" she has a boyfriend, but like I said they are on again off again, and a long distance thing. and she always tells me things like "he doesn't need to know" or "he can't tell me what to do"

In my mind, if she really doesn't want to cheat or break up the bf.. she won't... no matter what pattern or routine you use on her it's a choice... same thing sluts use to make themselves feel better about hooking up at a bar or a party, or just plain out being trashy... They say things like "I was soooo drunk" "i wouldnt've done that sober"... Well hey, it doesn't matter how drunk you were, if you really didn't want to hook up, you wouldn't... So it just means your a slut. In the same way, If this chick really didn't want to get into it with me, she would've shut me out. But she didn't. If a BF destroyer works, it's still her who asseses her own actions. she knows what she's doing reguardless of the PUA.

Any thoughts?
Author:  Corey [ Wed Apr 29, 2009 6:43 pm ]
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As I see it no one gave a fuck about stealing my women when I was with them so why would I give a fuck? If there relationship is great nothing will come of it .... most aren't.
Its called being better than that
Author:  Daishi [ Tue May 05, 2009 8:45 pm ]
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As I see it no one gave a fuck about stealing my women when I was with them so why would I give a fuck? If there relationship is great nothing will come of it .... most aren't.
Its called being better than that
You can "be better than that" but who the fuck is going to notice and appreciate it? Honestly. You going to get an award or some prize money for not doing it? Nope. Any recognition? Nah. Didn't think so. You gotta play on their level.

You going to tell your friends;

You: "Yah man, Carmen Electra, some douche stole her from me. Luckily I met this broad, Pamela Anderson, the other night who is awesome, funny, cute blahblahblahblah."

Friends: "Ya, and? you going to go for it?"

You: "Well she has a bf, so no. I will just wait"

Friends: /facepalm

I am with Jaybot. Guys got no problem stealing or tempting to steal mine. So why the fuck should I care?

You never know what may come from such things.
Author:  Jaybot [ Tue May 05, 2009 10:46 pm ]
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you wanna play by rules take up cricket or something, all women can be swayed marriage, kid anything. The only thing binding you is man made beliefs about love and shit. I am a little biased but fuckit you want to bitch why read and respond you want a fucking epiphany, me to be like oh shit my life's a lie cheers mister 8 letter name. If you aren't down for this watch love actually and think no further on the reality of love and relationships xxx
Author:  Daishi [ Wed May 06, 2009 1:18 am ]
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you wanna play by rules take up cricket or something, all women can be swayed marriage, kid anything. The only thing binding you is man made beliefs about love and shit. I am a little biased but fuckit you want to bitch why read and respond you want a fucking epiphany, me to be like oh shit my life's a lie cheers mister 8 letter name. If you aren't down for this watch love actually and think no further on the reality of love and relationships xxx
amen
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