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| Author: | CubanAces [ Sun Mar 22, 2009 5:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | A chick at work |
There's this girl at work. She's 18. I'm 26. I work in hotel reception and she's a lifeguard. She's always texting me to get away from the desk to hang out with her. Texting me all day pretty much. It's obvious to me and others that she likes me. At first when we were talking she seemed unhappy with her boyfriend and one day she spilled all her problems to me including how it was not gonna work with the boyfriend. All of a sudden though a couple of days later she seems to have totally made up with him. She's still constantly talking to me and when I or she is leaving she gives me an awkward little goodbye. Advice guys? |
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| Author: | Swoop [ Sun Mar 22, 2009 10:34 pm ] |
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So we will assume you want to fuck her cus you didn't really say. Chicks with boyfriends who flirt, are basically leaving their options open. Doesn't mean she wants to bang you, so its your job to make her want to. First of all, you need to decide where your morals lye. How do you feel about hooking up with a girl who has a boyfriend? Its different for everyone because there is always some sort of justification for doing it; even if its cus youre an asshole and your fine with it. Personally, I wouldn't pursue her unless I liked her. If your going to fuck over the other guy, do it for something better then just a lay. Thats your call tho. Next you can do a couple different things. Boyfriend destroyers. I don't use these because theyre evil! But all is far in love and war so make sure you like her (again, do what is inline with your morals). So thats an option. I would just flirt back with her and get her to like you the old fashion way; be fun and cool. What is your kino status with her right now? Bump up your kino and calibrate appropriately. OR You can straight up make a move. Chicks will either love it, or hate it, so feel out your odds of success before doing this. I would say never be afraid to bust a move with any chick you can walk away from no strings attached, but because you work with her do the math on what makes sense. Worst case scenario you freak her out she gets you fired. Then again, you could wind up fucking her against the water-cooler. |
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| Author: | CubanAces [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 12:59 am ] |
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Thanks for the reply. I don't want problems at work so I don't want to just fuck her. Only thing I'd do is steal her from the boyfriend. I'm brand new here. Don't know what boyfriend destroyers are or most of anything. The boyfriend is a real nerd and I can tell how threatened he feels by me. I would make a move if we didn't work in the same place. I need my job. |
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| Author: | The Omega Man [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 2:17 am ] |
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I say fuck work. http://www.whywork.org/rethinking/whywo ... ition.html I'm not bitter... Any miniscule amount of joy you can take from work I say go for it. |
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| Author: | CubanAces [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 7:10 am ] |
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LOL. Yea I got bills to pay though. |
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| Author: | CubanAces [ Sat Mar 28, 2009 5:48 pm ] |
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New development in the situation. The girl's talking to me online the other day and wants to know my opinion on something. The situation is her loser boyfriend jerks off to porn and she catches the stuff on his computer. He lies and says he'll never do it again and she keeps catching him. I explained to her that it's got nothing to do with her and that even though a guy's favorite food may be good steak, when you're hungry it doesn't matter. So I explained to her that the real issue is not that he does that it's that he lies about it. He can't be up front with her about it. She asks me to please not tell him about it. I say "hey you're my little buddy not him". I know when she dumps this loser I'm in. 100%. Advice? |
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