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| Author: | dim [ Wed Jun 13, 2007 10:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Club oppening |
Hey I have a problem and would love to hear some suggestions. when i am in a club the music is ussualy too loud so i cant hear the responses i get. the problem is that if i lean towards the girl i look needy and show too much interest, but if i just stay as i am very few of hot girls would lean towards me. if they do, great because i can tease them but it is rarely the case. Any suggestions? ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I DIDN'T USED THE SEARCH FUNCTION AND I WON ONE NEGATIVE REPUTATION POINT |
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| Author: | labamba [ Wed Jun 13, 2007 11:15 pm ] |
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try to position yourself to her side. This way you only lean to your side and don't look needy. |
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| Author: | Difference [ Thu Jun 14, 2007 3:04 am ] |
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Yeah that's the same with a lot of places down here, the music is just ridiculously loud to even have a conversation with out screaming and blasting the girl. In this case, you either a) gotta find a place where it's a bit quieter and try there b) open someone somewhere and then quickly isolate them to the quieter place c) try a different venue with quieter music. |
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| Author: | Simple [ Mon Jun 18, 2007 5:50 pm ] |
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I agree with all of the above... Quote: i look needy and show too much interest
I don't agree with this, because I think it's what's expected in clubs. It's innocent, and what everyone does. Look at the bar tenders, they aren't needy and they lean in. Besides, to be able to isolate, you more often than not will have to lean in to say something before dragging them away.But, I would agree that it's not great to do when you first meet, which means that you have to have another way to essentially say 'hi,' e.g. something to peacock with. Comments? |
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| Author: | Giacomo [ Wed Jun 20, 2007 12:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | NOPE!!! |
The reason you dont lean in is because you DON'T want to do what everyone else is doing. IF you don't lean in then they have to lean in to hear you. That is an IOI. If you don't lean in it shows you do not give a fuck if they pay attention or care what they have to say. Just stand your ground and they will lean into you. Hell! Shout your words if you have to! But as LoveDrop says: If they cannot hear you from one foot away, coming in a few centimetres closer is going to do fuck all. NEVER lean in EVER! (Unless its for a Kiss, then Giac condones it) |
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| Author: | Simple [ Wed Jun 20, 2007 7:40 am ] |
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The IOI bit is certainly true. But if it's a cock heavy night, then you're gunna feal it if she walks away from you. Alright, Giac makes a valid point. But by constraining your own actions, you start to over think. Do what is natural to you, because you may not have the sort of voice or personality to make yourself heard. Besides, most probably, she's not gunna lean in to you, unless she's interested in you immediatly. That's why you're gaming her in the first place! |
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| Author: | xamplify [ Wed Jun 20, 2007 12:57 pm ] |
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gambler has a great article about this here.... http://www.lycos.co.uk/xy/the-gambler-dancefloor.html I hope it helps xx |
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