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Author:  extremo [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 4:24 am ]
Post subject:  MY Flaw... I generate attraction and then.. I just stay ther
I usually ask precise questions, but now i want to be more general and at the same time attack the root of my problem. I knew about the game something like 6 months ago, and i just could not believe it.. and ironically i knew about it because of a woman... but anyways, since then i have read some books ( i hav ejust finish one and like half the way in the other ones....) and practice af ew tiem but never like, ok there is a set lets go for it... ( this is a problem and i am working on fic this part.) but you can see the change in my actitud, selfsteem and the way i am now. But the think that is bothering me is that i dont know how to make the change from OPEN-GENERATE ATTRACTION to actually have something! all the girl tell me i am hot, i am a babe, that i am flirty and so on, but i dont know what to do after the attraction phase!!! i just stay in that part, by now just a few times i have ended in the friend zone, but the rest is jsut like stand by. I like them, i know they like me. but thats all.. I need serious advise about this... I wan t to improve in this section.

Thanks
Author:  KristallNachte [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 4:27 am ]
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You could just go caveman and kiss them straight up


or Isolate and do something like the Evolution Phase-shift.
Author:  Ling [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 4:31 am ]
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dude youre money on this. From the point that you get their phone number or whatever the rest is all downhill.... Just wait a couple days from when you get their number and then call them. Play the cocky funny routine on the phone for a few minutes (you should have no problem with this since you said youre naturally flirty) and then set a date with them. Make sure that YOURE in control of this, so you wanna say something like

You: We should go out for dinner and a flick friday night, that is if you can wait that long to see me again ;)

The main thing is just make sure youre in control from this point on. You pick the movie, you pick the restaurant, etc etc.... dont ask her if shes ok with any of the choices you make, if she has any objections believe me she will let you know. The point is women like a man thats in control and taking charge, youve got the first part down no problem dude and believe me, its by far the hardest part.
Author:  KristallNachte [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 5:06 am ]
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except, find something better than dinner and a movie.

A concert is a good plan-b, but find something more interesting!!!
Author:  Ling [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 5:19 am ]
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except, find something better than dinner and a movie.

A concert is a good plan-b, but find something more interesting!!!
ehhh yeah, dinner and a movie is easy though... and he obviously doesnt have that much experience taking it to the next level.... so i think he should start with that, its a good combination because its easy to make conversation at dinner, and then afterwards the movie requires little effort at all....

definitly do something you like though, if you both share an interest in the same music a concert is wicked too.
Author:  KristallNachte [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 5:32 am ]
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but local small-venue concerts are cheap (not that you should be paying for her!) and there is opportunity for conversation without the pressure of it, as there is opportunity for lots of kino without the pressure for it.
Author:  kasabi [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 8:58 am ]
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The whole "waiting to call" thing is over-rated. I've actually gotten the habit of calling them/texting them within 5 minutes of the # close.

1. It confirms the number.
2. It gives them my number(So they can save it with my NAME)
3. It gives them assurance that you're not some flake who won't call.
4. When you call or text them later on, your NAME goes along with a previous text string so she associates the "just met a cool guy" emotions with the current call/text.

I tried out the wait 2 days, 3 days, wait 1 day, wait 7 days . . . with multiple numbers for a while now. For me anyways, the above method has the highest "retention rate". A girl who gives you a number(especially in a bar/club) has surely given her number out to multiple people. There is nothing worse than calling/texting a girl and receiving, "I'm sorry . . . who are you?" (Their fear for returning something like this is also a top reason that they flake out)

Also, the number close in the first place should have been associated with a FUN EVENT, which should have been associated with a "fantasy event", which should have been associated with YOU AND SEX. (Through kino and verbal communication)

Always think about the next step and make it easier for you to move on. This way, when you text later on, you don't have to "break ice" again with, "Umm . . this is XXXX, remember me? Uh . . . so you wanna do something?"

Instead, it's more like , "Hey cupcakes, I'll pick up up for the concert at 8" or "What's up Rockstar, hope ur rcvred from Thurs nght tequillas. Revved up for Metro tomrrw?"

Dinner and a movie is a tough combination for a fuck fuck ending. Because this is a standard "date", girls tend to get that "date" warning signal flashing and they resort to their programmed methods to behave certain ways.

A pizza and a dvd is far better. Clean the place up, have some cocktails ready. . . I have about 100 dvd's at my place. I have never watched more than 30 minutes of any of those movies. Well sometimes I go back and try to watch it by myself. There are a ton of little gimmicks and tricks that get this mojo moving right along. Just begin doing this and make them up on your own.
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