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| Author: | motoxgolf [ Thu Feb 12, 2009 5:24 pm ] |
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ok so ive finaly realized why i cant approach strange women in public. and while i feel like an idiot talking about this i realize we all started out as shy guys. but my friedns have asked mw what im afraid of and now i nko what makes me scared of women when i was a high schooler women always made me feel like the ugly kid in class and they hated being near me. if i talked or sat next to them i got the look of " why are you near me" and as ive gotten older ive goten shyer and it sucks i remember the days when i wasnt shy or scared of girls and now i feel trapped in a prison of myself and i cant find the way out. is there anyway to get over this? |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Feb 12, 2009 5:47 pm ] |
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Just constantly tell yourself that you look good and girls like you. This is something that you have embedded into your own mind and you are sabotaging yourself with this mind-set. You just need to tell yourself that girls like you now and just start approaching them when you see them. You will get rejected by some, but not all... You can use a line that Ross Jeffries has his new students use... Go up to a girl on the streets and just say, "Hi, I'm Manny the Marshian, what flavor of bowling ball do you like?" This usually gets a laugh, but if the girl is a strange one (you don't want her) she will get all freaked out or whatever. Or you can just go up a girl and say, "I'm making it a goal of mine to meet 20 strangers today. My name is _____, (offer a handshake)." |
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| Author: | noresiduals [ Thu Feb 12, 2009 5:49 pm ] |
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Well let's be honest... Are the ugly? If so then get in get shape, get rich, or have a really big dick. Preferrably all 3. And though it doesnt help... i've never been shy, but then again i've always been gorgeous and chiseled out of steel! and though im broke i pretend to be rich so that works too. and dont get me started on my dick... 
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| Author: | noresiduals [ Thu Feb 12, 2009 5:51 pm ] |
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Well let's be honest... Are you ugly? If so then get in get shape, get rich, or have a really big dick. Preferrably all 3. And though it doesnt help... i've never been shy, but then again i've always been gorgeous and chiseled out of steel! and though im broke i pretend to be rich so that works too. and dont get me started on my dick... and to get over it since it seems like ur dripping in your own tears and lack of self-confidence... try Exstacy. Then go to a club and if that doesnt get you hitting on girls then... i dunno. |
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| Author: | KristallNachte [ Thu Feb 12, 2009 6:57 pm ] |
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Two words: demonic confidence http://letmegooglethatforyou.com/?q=demonic+confidence |
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| Author: | motoxgolf [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 7:59 am ] |
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well colloso sounds like an idiot and this demonic confidence is too expensive for me right now so i like the first posters idea talk to 20 ppl a day |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Fri Feb 13, 2009 9:28 am ] |
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It doesn't take much effort. Do what you can physically. Get yourself a new hair cut. Shave well. Brush your teeth . . . begin working out. DONE with this step. Secondly, I'm not a fan of "tell yourself this and tell yourself that." When your pissed off or sad, are you able to cheer yourself up by telling yourself, "Cheer up! Cheer up!"?? Doesn't work. I am a big fan of "Physical methods" to solve "emotional issues' so yeah, I love the 20 people idea. Start little by little. If you get a negative response, just shrug your shoulders and move on. If you get a positive response. ENJOY IT! Enjoy it 100% and laugh, laugh, laugh. Get those endorphins pumping into your brain so that your chemical factory in your brain associates "WOMAN" with a "FUN" release of endorphins. This can spark a whole new cycle. You see them coming at you and already, you begin to smile and have fun with it. They see a smiling fun dude and begin to draw close to you. You're rewarded with them coming near you so you open them confidently. . . . this is ALL GOOD. And it seems corny. . . but a new hairdo and a new outfit can create a little "spark" to get all this going. You walk out like "Zohan" walked out of Paul Mitchell and just go BAM! This is the new me! You can do this man . . . |
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