what does it mean when you say to a girl, you are so beautiful
and the girl goes like no im not.
i mean why would she dequalify herself
why do girls say they are ugly in general?
greetings.
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| Author: | paladien [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 9:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why do girls say they are ugly ? |
what does it mean when you say to a girl, you are so beautiful and the girl goes like no im not. i mean why would she dequalify herself why do girls say they are ugly in general? greetings. |
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| Author: | Cinnamon Spice [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 9:44 pm ] |
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It's a way to fish for compliments. They want more compliments and more attention, they disqualify themselves so that you will qualify them more. It's a silly thing and drives me nuts. Cinnamon |
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| Author: | paladien [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 10:27 pm ] |
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yeah me too i get it a lot of times i have had at least 4 girls who gave me this shit already how do you deal with it |
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| Author: | s0n1c3 [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 10:41 pm ] |
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"Cool, well I'm talking to you to find out more about you, so when you get over it can we continue this." |
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| Author: | Flexx6 [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 10:42 pm ] |
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yeah it happens alot to me also....wat i do is when they say that ill be like "r u kidding me? just stop talking i cnt believe u just said that" but i make sure to add a smirk so she knows that i mean it in the best way possible lol |
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| Author: | Impact [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 10:53 pm ] |
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Quote: It's a way to fish for compliments.
They want more compliments and more attention, they disqualify themselves so that you will qualify them more. Bingo! Catch her on it, say "Someones fishing for compliments.. you should know by now they come when least expected" - Alfie |
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| Author: | Charlie0 [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 11:07 pm ] |
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Either they're wanting you to jump through their hoop, or they're actually insecure about how they look. Either way, they're still fishing. |
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| Author: | expat_of_love [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 4:42 am ] |
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In all honesty, she probably really is ugly. Females are a better judge of female attractiveness than young horny boys. |
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| Author: | RTTastic [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 6:30 am ] |
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There is no winning in this situation. Everyone is right. The girls are fishing for compliments. Someone else above said that it is either because they just want more compliments, or they really don't believe that they are beautiful (low-self-esteem) and are still fishing for more compliments. Problem is...if you compliment more...it will be an endless loop, or they just will write you off as an AFC or as a flatterer. If you say something like "Well, you can't take a compliment" if they're self-esteem really is that low, they will really retract from you. Maybe....and this is a maybe, it would work to say something like, "Well, it's a matter of opinion, and mine's the only opinion that matters!" (cocky/funny?) or "Well, you can believe me or not, but I know what I think." and then continue the conversation. Personally, when someone calls me "hot" or "beautiful" or any compliment, I usually just respond with..."I know."  (there are reasons behind this)
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| Author: | Brenoporra [ Wed Jan 28, 2009 11:50 am ] |
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"I'd still hit that" not biting the hook, being CF and giving a minor IOI |
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