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Author:  SolidGame [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 8:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Is this a case of a shit test ?

I've been taking this girl out now for 3 days and have kino escalated and kiss closed her in all three of those times. We also have been drinking and she seems to like getting drunk everytime she goes out. Unfortunately, I havn't had the that perfect time and place yet to get her in bed, but now im wondering if she is shit testing me or just saying I don't want anything to do with you anymore?

Here was the case:
After I had a sensual kiss close when I dropped her off at her parents home, I felt really good and horny (as to say). She then texts me 30 minutes later that night saying:

HB-"hey..Thanks for today. I don't know how you feel about us, but I want to apologize. I've been so drunk everytime we've chilled and I think you should know that Im not looking for a relationship. Im sorry if I may have happened to mislead you in anyway."

I then text her back
Me-"Don't worry Im just having a good time and I hope you are too..We can just be friends and keep everything groovy. i understand.."

HB-"Thanks.."

SO, this text message made me analyze and wonder if she was trying test me if I was serious with her or If she is just trying to be kindly upfront in case I felt like she was the only one for me :lol: .

Could I have approached it better through sending her a different message ? Was her messaeg a "Shit Test" or does it look like I should just move on to the next and learn from this whole experience ?

Where can I take this from here?

-SolidGame is what I aim

Author:  SUB-ZERO [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:17 pm ]
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I wouldn't put this in the shit test category. She may still want to fool around with ya without leading you on. Since she was always drunk when this stuff happened try to seduce her when she is not. If you can do that, than you will know exactly where things stand between you two.

Author:  V1V [ Sun Jan 25, 2009 2:27 am ]
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I wouldnt say a shit test tbh.
I would say you have either been hit by LJBF
Or youve just screwed up completely. Shes gonna hit ASD if you just escalate each time drunk, and itll take the form of buyers remorse. All comfort will lose its value, you were both drunk. Same goes with the attraction.
Remember females may not be consciously aware of the fact, but they are always looking for a relationship. Its their biological drive. But she wont be looking for a relationship WITH YOU IF you fail to lead her into one. She says shes looking for fun, elicit the values. Shes looking for a fun relationship.

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